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guys i need to find out something

right i went clubbing a few weeks ago and met this guy (i already knew who he was) and we hit it off, we were dancing and kissing and copping a feel should i say, now when we were at the bar he guided my hand down his trousers and at the same time this guy behind me was shouting out loads of funny stuff that made me laugh,

then the guy made his excuses and left,
could it be he wasn't interested in me surely if he wasn't he wouldn't have gone anywhere near me, but then again men are cruel as any hole is a goal,

i just don't get this, i saw him a few days later and he was like hi how are you i hope you are ok, i heard from a mate who once dated him that if he didn't like me he would have ignored me,

im so confused, of course i moved on from that and im over it i just dunt understand a guys mind

any guys want to shed some light onto this???

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Reply 1

HereFishyFishy

He probably liked you - as in found you attractive - but he was just having a bit of fun.
If he had wanted anything more, he would've got your number. That's it really.

Reply 2

Tarts_n_Vicars

He got a stranger to stick her hand in his pants....why would he call? Seriously come on! Maybe he got what he wanted and that was it.....

Reply 3

TKR

erm

you put your hand down his pants

then laughed?

Reply 4

Glory

Maybe he got embarrsed, and thought you was laughing at what you found. Who knows.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

yer i laughed as someone was making funny noises behind me

Reply 6

WorkHouse

TKR

erm

you put your hand down his pants

then laughed?

my thoughts exactly, great minds...

Reply 7

Glory

Anonymous

yer i laughed as someone was making funny noises behind me

we all get why you laughed, but maybe he doesnt. Your brain kinda cuts surround sounds out when your getting arroused. Talk to him, find out why things have come to a confusing end.

Reply 8

Hashem

Ok if this was me i would do the same
I would do exactly the same
U LAUGHED!
If a girls hand is in my trousers and she laughs, i wont just leave ill give her the sense and a look of hate
I wouldnt even say hello if i saw her
GET IT YOU LAUGHED! THATS THE CREEK!!!

I dont think you well going saying i didnt mean ur penis was a joke to some1, your over it so just move on, but thats why he EXACTLY, left.

Regards
Hashem

Reply 9

username47781

Well i doubt he likes you for who you are, he probably only wanted 1 thing from you, sounds like this is normal for a nightclub.

Reply 10

clyn

Classy bird.

Are you really bothered, or are you just a nice person and worried you hurt his feelings/looking for the chance to explain?

Reply 11

billbonesknowswhatimean

turn the situation around...he was doin the "feeling" then you burst out laughing at "something else"...:\ i doubt you'd be chuckling along to this stranger's knock knock jokes would ya

Reply 12

A Y A Z

He must have thought you were laughing at his size :wink:

Reply 13

billbonesknowswhatimean

lol i love the fact we were all beatin around the bush then ayaz just comes out n says it

Reply 14

A Y A Z

LOL!
Thank you very much ladies and gentlemen.

Reply 15

A Y A Z

Anyways, somebody had to do it.

Reply 16

Wonderboy Blue

Was 'it' laughable?

See I wouldn't PUT a girls hands down my pants...but if she wanted to I'd have no problem, I like to touch girls up too.

But its a bit much him moving your hand. Sounds like a mad, typical nightclub type scenario.

Reply 17

A Y A Z

I think you missed the whole point!

She laughed. He thought she was laughing at his.... size. Guys don't like to think... that they're small or something like that.

Period.

Reply 18

billbonesknowswhatimean

A Y Z

I think you missed the whole point!

...mate, all the posts on this thread have got the point. except yours?!