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i have always had this problem, since i was very small, i have a 15 year gap with my brother who is know 29, he always tells me that when i was born my mum wasnt happy with having me, he said that one day when he went to meet her at the hospital she said to him that she wanted to chuck me out of the window, when i asked my mum about this she just smiled and walked off.
In the family i have always been treated as this girl with no feelings, when i do try to express my opinion they call me a brat and how they could not even have the courage to say that to there parents, my mum says i'm like other teenagers and then compares me with her friends kids and points out how nice and respectful they are, i've always tryed my best to make her happy, i get good results in my studys and i help with the cooking and clean around the house, but its not good enough
i wrote this thread hoping that people will help me deal with her
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Shoot her in the head, thats what I did with mine. (joke)
But seriously, who cares? When my parents act like that, i.e. if I say anything I get called gobby and I have an attitude problem, I just think if it was someone off the street would it bother me much?
Some people are just ********s.
But seriously, who cares? When my parents act like that, i.e. if I say anything I get called gobby and I have an attitude problem, I just think if it was someone off the street would it bother me much?
Some people are just ********s.
Reply 2
Anonymous
i have always had this problem, since i was very small, i have a 15 year gap with my brother who is know 29, he always tells me that when i was born my mum wasnt happy with having me, he said that one day when he went to meet her at the hospital she said to him that she wanted to chuck me out of the window, when i asked my mum about this she just smiled and walked off.
In the family i have always been treated as this girl with no feelings, when i do try to express my opinion they call me a brat and how they could not even have the courage to say that to there parents, my mum says i'm like other teenagers and then compares me with her friends kids and points out how nice and respectful they are, i've always tryed my best to make her happy, i get good results in my studys and i help with the cooking and clean around the house, but its not good enough
i wrote this thread hoping that people will help me deal with her
i have always had this problem, since i was very small, i have a 15 year gap with my brother who is know 29, he always tells me that when i was born my mum wasnt happy with having me, he said that one day when he went to meet her at the hospital she said to him that she wanted to chuck me out of the window, when i asked my mum about this she just smiled and walked off.
In the family i have always been treated as this girl with no feelings, when i do try to express my opinion they call me a brat and how they could not even have the courage to say that to there parents, my mum says i'm like other teenagers and then compares me with her friends kids and points out how nice and respectful they are, i've always tryed my best to make her happy, i get good results in my studys and i help with the cooking and clean around the house, but its not good enough
i wrote this thread hoping that people will help me deal with her
Well, i guess keep up the good work on your studies, and then get yourself a decent job and get the shizzle out of there. My advice would be either
a) Try talking to your mum about it
b) Keeping shtum, don't let her think she is getting to you
Hope that helps
Reply 3
i tryed talking to my mum so many times and she just ends it by saying, ow you dont love me, how unfair is that!
Reply 4
why wasn't she happy with having you?
Reply 5
Anonymous
i tryed talking to my mum so many times and she just ends it by saying, ow you dont love me, how unfair is that!
Very. It does seem harsh, how realistic does option b) sound?
Reply 6
I agree with the above, get out of that crummy situation and find people who do love you. Friends are the new family anyhow.
Reply 7
Anonymous
i have always had this problem, since i was very small, i have a 15 year gap with my brother who is know 29, he always tells me that when i was born my mum wasnt happy with having me, he said that one day when he went to meet her at the hospital she said to him that she wanted to chuck me out of the window, when i asked my mum about this she just smiled and walked off.
In the family i have always been treated as this girl with no feelings, when i do try to express my opinion they call me a brat and how they could not even have the courage to say that to there parents, my mum says i'm like other teenagers and then compares me with her friends kids and points out how nice and respectful they are, i've always tryed my best to make her happy, i get good results in my studys and i help with the cooking and clean around the house, but its not good enough
i wrote this thread hoping that people will help me deal with her
i have always had this problem, since i was very small, i have a 15 year gap with my brother who is know 29, he always tells me that when i was born my mum wasnt happy with having me, he said that one day when he went to meet her at the hospital she said to him that she wanted to chuck me out of the window, when i asked my mum about this she just smiled and walked off.
In the family i have always been treated as this girl with no feelings, when i do try to express my opinion they call me a brat and how they could not even have the courage to say that to there parents, my mum says i'm like other teenagers and then compares me with her friends kids and points out how nice and respectful they are, i've always tryed my best to make her happy, i get good results in my studys and i help with the cooking and clean around the house, but its not good enough
i wrote this thread hoping that people will help me deal with her
when you leave home just dont ever go back.
Reply 8
i agree with the second option and as hard as i try to keep a hold of myself, i just turn week again, by listening to all the hate pouring out at me, she hates be because i was born very late which is so not my fault!! and because im not as good enogh as other kids, also she adresses me as "hay girl"
Reply 9
in the words of gollum
"leeeeeave and never come back!!"
"leeeeeave and never come back!!"
Reply 10
i wish leaving would be that simple lol
in my culture girls are the gem of there parents and if anything happens to us our family are always put down and looked on as inferiors
in my culture girls are the gem of there parents and if anything happens to us our family are always put down and looked on as inferiors
Reply 11
Anonymous
i agree with the second option and as hard as i try to keep a hold of myself, i just turn week again, by listening to all the hate pouring out at me, she hates be because i was born very late which is so not my fault!! and because im not as good enogh as other kids, also she adresses me as "hay girl"
Damn straight 'twas not your fault, don't really understand the 'hay girl' bit, but anyway, do try and keep focused on other, more important matters, only another 4ish years until you're off to uni, then you're outta there!
Reply 12
Anonymous
i wish leaving would be that simple lol
in my culture girls are the gem of there parents and if anything happens to us our family are always put down and looked on as inferiors
in my culture girls are the gem of there parents and if anything happens to us our family are always put down and looked on as inferiors
thats not your fault. you cant sacrifice your happyness just to make their lives a bit easier.
Write her a letter detailing all your feelings and make sure she reads it all the way through before she talks to you again.
If she won't read it or still doesn't make an attempt to change afterwards then she must be a pretty crappy mum. I feel bad for you but I do believe that all people can change if they want to.
If she won't read it or still doesn't make an attempt to change afterwards then she must be a pretty crappy mum. I feel bad for you but I do believe that all people can change if they want to.
Reply 15
clyn
Are your parents a lot older than the parents of your peers?
hell ya lol about 7/8 years difference
Reply 16
Anonymous
hell ya lol about 7/8 years difference
7/8 years really isnt that much
Reply 17
ya your rit its not much, but i didnt get how the age of my parents would effect my relationship with my mum?
Reply 18
i feel genuinely bad for you, thats terrible to "smile and walked away" is just truly aweful.
I would say sod how its going to refelect on them, simply leave and make sure everyone knows why your going. It will sever all ties especially once those in your culture realise just how bad she really is. To destroy her in society is probably the best way to get her back.
You need to be strong anon and get out of there as soon as you can its not healthy for you
I would say sod how its going to refelect on them, simply leave and make sure everyone knows why your going. It will sever all ties especially once those in your culture realise just how bad she really is. To destroy her in society is probably the best way to get her back.
You need to be strong anon and get out of there as soon as you can its not healthy for you
Anonymous
ya your rit its not much, but i didnt get how the age of my parents would effect my relationship with my mum?
yeah, sorry, just had the idea there that 'cause your brother's a lot older, they must be pretty old and therefore more in the age bracket of grandparents, hence maybe different attitudes and possibly a difficulty in relating to you young 'uns.
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