I CANNOT *HAVE* RELATIONSHIPS anymore,

i know what the problem is, but i just cant seem to change it - it just seems impossible not too worry, not too think too much. any ideas?

i get on with them really well in a social context. but when i get into a relationship, i cant seem to keep that rapport. Sorry, it wasnt very well expressed - that part isn't actually a problem, just what results from it.

My recent relationships have all ended in misery. My problem is that i get on fantasticly with girls who are friends (albeit in a slightly sisterly way). Consequently i have been fortunate enough to have lots of girlfriends throughout my life. Unfortunatly, however, i ***** them all up, i always over-think and become anxious and self consious. I have had one fantastic relationship; in which i was really confident and did'nt care/worry about how it went.

I just cant seem to click with the girls i go out with anymore, and its purely because of a knee-jerk like reaction to any success - i just panic and think too much, thinking it wont work, and it all becomes a soul destroying self fullfilling prophecy.

How can i change? any help would be much apreciated!

i get into a relationship. Which dosent work, partly because we have been good friends, parly because, as i said, i get nervous.

hmmm. i was just looking for a way of overcomming over-anylysation and anxiety. I guess there is no quick fix. I've been trying to overcome it, but nothing has worked, i always slip into the same irrational patterns of behaviour.

I suppose its just practice