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Almost graduated, feeling lonely, considering an Escort or erotic massage?

I've saved up, been good all uni life. Feeling a bit lonely, not really into the girls on my course (very arrogant, no personality, no interest except the course). I'm a virgin because I was looking for the right girl, but worried about being inexperienced when i meet her.

Also, been a bit horny, and don't want to keep watching porn.

Whilst looking up genuine massage online for a post sports massage, I came across these services. I've been browsing to look for a reputable one.

There's a really hot indian girl at one who I would love to meet.

What do you all think? I've never done this before (escort or massage). Is it worth it? I would definitely use protection goes without saying.

Reply 1

Ehmmm..no

Reply 2

Your future girlfriend would much prefer you to be a virgin rather than having lost it to some sleazy worker at an agency, honestly.

I know it's hard, but you deserve better than that and I think you might regret it in the long run.

Reply 3

if you were waiting for the right girl surely you might regret it later on? :/

Reply 4

Original post by Meyrin
Your future girlfriend would much prefer you to be a virgin rather than having lost it to some sleazy worker at an agency, honestly.

I know it's hard, but you deserve better than that and I think you might regret it in the long run.


yeah dude. you sound like a nice guy, stick to your values, be patient and you will meet lots of hot women naturally and then the most wonderful girl who is miss. right at some point. It will so be worth it. Hang on in there Mosby.

Reply 5

Usually I'd say go for it, but as you're pretty inexperienced I don't think this can really be recommended unless you're certain - which you don't sound.

Reply 6

Only you can answer the 'is it worth it' question, and only afterwards. As has been said, it's not something subsequent partners are likely to be impressed by, and if it's not a one-off thing, it gets very expensive very quickly.

But if you're going to do it, look for someone working independently rather than via an agency. As well as individual reputation being much more important - independents get work by people looking to book them, rather than the 'I want a blonde with...' clients agencies get - the chances of the photos being genuine are considerably higher.

When it comes to having a nice time in bed, personality matters a lot more than looks, so don't be too shallow about that.

What would you be looking to get out of this?

Reply 7

Original post by nehru
I've saved up, been good all uni life. Feeling a bit lonely, not really into the girls on my course (very arrogant, no personality, no interest except the course). I'm a virgin because I was looking for the right girl, but worried about being inexperienced when i meet her.

Also, been a bit horny, and don't want to keep watching porn.

Whilst looking up genuine massage online for a post sports massage, I came across these services. I've been browsing to look for a reputable one.

There's a really hot indian girl at one who I would love to meet.

What do you all think? I've never done this before (escort or massage). Is it worth it? I would definitely use protection goes without saying.


I'm in a similar boat, but I graduated last year. I've thought about it, but then I decided against it.

Here's my thinking (which some may think is crazy) - if you're looking for the right girl and you're worried about inexperience, then why not learn with the right girl when she comes along?

I think you're just lonely. Humans, by design, need companionship in some form - family, friends, partners. Yes, we need to be alone at certain times, but not all the time. I would suggest doing something about the loneliness as it appears that's your biggest problem.

Reply 8

Original post by jay2013
I'm in a similar boat, but I graduated last year. I've thought about it, but then I decided against it.

Here's my thinking (which some may think is crazy) - if you're looking for the right girl and you're worried about inexperience, then why not learn with the right girl when she comes along?

I think you're just lonely. Humans, by design, need companionship in some form - family, friends, partners. Yes, we need to be alone at certain times, but not all the time. I would suggest doing something about the loneliness as it appears that's your biggest problem.


Well said. You sound like a good person, so think one day, though it might seem hard now, you would be so happy you waited. Makes the girl you meet all the more special.

Where's the best place to meet girls HIMYM style?

Reply 9

go for it.

it's like going on a date, but be safe. practice safely.

it's an experience before you meet the right girl.

Reply 10

Original post by nehru
I've saved up, been good all uni life. Feeling a bit lonely, not really into the girls on my course (very arrogant, no personality, no interest except the course). I'm a virgin because I was looking for the right girl, but worried about being inexperienced when i meet her.Also, been a bit horny, and don't want to keep watching porn.Whilst looking up genuine massage online for a post sports massage, I came across these services. I've been browsing to look for a reputable one.There's a really hot indian girl at one who I would love to meet.What do you all think? I've never done this before (escort or massage). Is it worth it? I would definitely use protection goes without saying.
Hi I love to meet u any contact number

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