Anon please.
this is long but please read!
Girls how do you deal with all the insecurities you have? In terms of looks? For me, its getting to a point where i dont want to even leave the house in the morning to catch the bus to college. In my head, i'm convinced that all the people in the cars driving past me are looking at me and judging me on how pretty or ugly i am and this makes me feel very uncomfortable.
also, i think my insecurities are getting in the way of my social life. i hardly ever want to go out with my friends anymore and i think i'm too insecure to be in a relationship
its so depressing. but i think the fact that guys always stare at me but never come up and talk to me/ask me out adds to this. i dont understand why!?
in terms of looks, i have good days and bad days, i mean, somedays i think i look dog awful but then others days when i look in the mirror, i think wow is that really me? l typically i have more bad days than good days but
i mean, not to sound arrogant but my friends tell me i'm really pretty and even my teachers (past and present) have said i'm "beautiful" however, i always see past this, and no matter what, i'm always ashamed/scared to go out in public (but ALWAYS when i'm by myself- i never feel like this if i'm with someone) which is very weird. can any psychology students explain this?
so what i'm asking is, how do you cast all your own personal insecurities aside and not let them ruin your life?
any advice?
thank you