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How do u know?

Right this sounds really daft but oh well!

Been seeing this guy for a month and a half and feel really really close to him. We are pretty serious, see or speak to each other every day, I've lived with him for a week when my parents were away on holiday, slept together etc.

But, people keep asking me if we are "going out" yet...I duno! Neither of us has said anything about that!

How do i know? or how do i ask without freaking him out about commitment?

hehe

thanks guys

x-x-x
Reply 1
Seeing as you are that close perhaps after a romantic evening together you could bring the topic up?
wait till after sex then you can bring it up more casually
I suspect he is probably feeling the same - if you feel that close you should just ask him!

Sarah xx
Reply 4
high priestess fnord
wait till after sex then you can bring it up more casually


i think before you reach the sex stage would be best
I've lived with him for a week when my parents were away on holiday, slept together etc.


By the sounds of it i think that beacon has already been passed
Reply 6
high priestess fnord
wait till after sex then you can bring it up more casually


To be honest, I really don't think that's a smart move. Guys really don't want to talk about serious stuff just after having sex.

Maybe that was a joke anyway...
Sazarina88
I suspect he is probably feeling the same - if you feel that close you should just ask him!

Sarah xx

I suspect he is probably feeling himself - if you want to feel that too you should just ask him!

Sam xx
Hold on, am I understanding this correctly? You've lived together, you've slept together, and people haven't given you sarcastic replies? :rolleyes: