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heavy petting with the door open

my bf and i are both 19. whilst we're engaging in sexual acts and actually copulating he doesnt seem to mind his bedroom door being open. his parents are very liberal and he only has older siblings and often or not they are all in the house on different floors. my instinct is to always want to close the door. is it normal for him to not even think about closing it?

Reply 1

Appanouki

It's a little odd, but some people just care less.

Do you have sex under the covers? Has anyone actually seen you?

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

i thought id add that he is actually quite a shy guy at times.

Reply 3

generalebriety

16

Some people are less shy around their parents than their peers. Or vice-versa.

Although I agree it sounds strange.

Reply 4

Happy1

14

Id just close it yourself. if he doest like that then tell him its very weird andyou feel uncomfortable. if he's a caring, nice person, he'll understand and respect you wishes.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

yes its under the covers and no one has seen or walked by. but i do tend to make noises

Reply 6

Appanouki

Anonymous

yes its under the covers and no one has seen or walked by. but i do tend to make noises

do not take offense, but it sounds like you are being a typical female; asking for advice from everyone else but the boyfriend with whom it is most concerned. honestly, i suggest you just go talk to him about it lol :wink:

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

well once im in the act i dont mind. i kinda of zone out and its only when i think back that i assume it should be closed.

none taken i just wanted to know if other couples were like that. i dont need to know why he is like this

Reply 8

Appanouki

I certainly wouldn't care about strangers, but family members?

Man...!

if your that worried about people seeing you 2 then tell him your concerns, if he still refuses to respect your wishes maybe he isn't the guy for you

Reply 11

janesmith

it sounds like the parents arnt concerned or bothered by this. as long as you can have nomral chats and dinner with your bfs rents then its ok. you're old enough so they must understand.

Reply 12

Helenia

20

Anonymous

my bf and i are both 19. whilst we're engaging in sexual acts and actually copulating he doesnt seem to mind his bedroom door being open. his parents are very liberal and he only has older siblings and often or not they are all in the house on different floors. my instinct is to always want to close the door. is it normal for him to not even think about closing it?

Maybe it's normal for him but that doesn't mean you have to like it if you feel uncomfortable. Certainly I would.

heavy petting with the door open

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