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Finding it hard to forget

Last term at university in my final week I was approached by a great girl at university. We went out a lot together in the final week, & there was generally a lot of chemistry between us. I told her on my final night with her "I fancy you, so if you feel uncomftable being around me, I will just go home with my mates" (she has a bf back home so I thought it was improper to mention this earlier, but I just felt compelled to tell her due to certain events that took place the night before). I ended up in her room that night and we spoke for hours. She wanted to see me the next day, but without realising, I had one already booked. :rolleyes:

Anyway, she was at my university as part of a exchange program, so after the final week (which happened to be the end of term), she had to go back to her country as her exchange program came to an end.

Right, since then I have tried to move on by just completely forgetting about her. As I have just accepted the fact that shes back home, enjoying her life with her bf. She emailed me like a month and a half ago, I sent her a reply but she has not emailed back since :frown:

its been 6 weeks!

Since her, I have had interest from many other girls, but it just does not feel the same. The connection I had with her was very strong, like everytime we would see each other we would smile and generally enjoy each others company; from the first time we met. With other girls, it seems to be mainly lust base - I guess it could be because I tend to meet them in clubs - no real substance there.

I would like to be mates with her still, but by the looks of it, it is obviously not going to happen at this rate. What is the best way to forget?

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

but without realising, I had a flight already booked. :rolleyes:

Reply 2

username47781

It's a shame shes not contacted you because you could have still been mates but look at this way though she had a b/f already so really there wasn't much you could have done.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Carl1982

It's a shame shes not contacted you because you could have still been mates but look at this way though she had a b/f already so really there wasn't much you could have done.

I am in contact with her friend (I met him through her) on MSN, he is a nice guy. Sometimes I feel like asking him if I could have her MSN address, but I refrain from doing so because I just feel as though if she really wanted to contact me she would have done so by now.

I just never understood her, after all that effort (like she approached me after seeing me around university), she can't even keep in touch.