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I'm so upset - please help :(

I came back from holiday yesterday and while I was there I met this really sweet, gorgeous guy. We kissed and stuff and I got on with him really, really well. All my mates said he was besotted with me and he asked for my number and msn and kept going on about staying in contact and stuff.
Then when I met him again the next night he was really ill and throwing up, and ended up going home early. He didn't say bye to me but I assumed it was because he wasn't feeling well and so I didn't think it was a big deal.
However, now that we're home from holiday, he hasn't texted me. I added him on MSN and spoke to him but he said hardly anything and seemed really off with me, then just logged off without saying bye.

I'm so confused. What did I do wrong? I feel so down.

Reply 1

hard to hear but holiday hook-ups are uuusually best kept as that. guess he thinks that too

Reply 2

Yeah that's fair enough but the point is that he actually SAID he wanted to stay in contact once we got home, and even meet up. It's not like he ever implied he wanted to leave it at that.

Reply 3

Aw, just foget it...if he don't wanna make an effort then he isn't worth it.

Why did you post anon anyway?

Reply 4

Don't know actually, lol. My self confidence has been knocked. I feel like I'm not good enough for him and all the stuff he said to me just didn't mean anything.

Reply 5

Holiday romance...crap stuff.

Reply 6

You'll be over it before long.

Reply 7

Maybe hes still ill

Reply 8

I don't think he is interested in you at all otherwise he would have made the effort to talk to you by now, its more likely he wanted to get in your underwear. Maybe his friends were lying when they said he was besotted with you, mind you, you could send an email saying are we friends or not and if he fails to give an answer, then hes a waste of time.

Yeah sweet guy lol hmmmmm

Reply 9

Clarence
Holiday romance...crap stuff.


:ditto:

Reply 10

Anonymous
I came back from holiday yesterday and while I was there I met this really sweet, gorgeous guy. We kissed and stuff and I got on with him really, really well. All my mates said he was besotted with me and he asked for my number and msn and kept going on about staying in contact and stuff.
Then when I met him again the next night he was really ill and throwing up, and ended up going home early. He didn't say bye to me but I assumed it was because he wasn't feeling well and so I didn't think it was a big deal.
However, now that we're home from holiday, he hasn't texted me. I added him on MSN and spoke to him but he said hardly anything and seemed really off with me, then just logged off without saying bye.

I'm so confused. What did I do wrong? I feel so down.


He probably just wanted a shag. I would leave it at that if i were you. (and delete him from my msn contacts list)