Just Got Back From Holiday, Had A Major Arguement With Friends!.

Basiclly just got back from a week in spain with the girls! And we had a arguement! It was me, and my 3 mates, and 1 of their sisters !

It all started, because one of my mates said she wanted to go back hotel from club as she was tired, and EVERYONE else agreed, I said I didn't mind, I'll go along with what everyone else wanted to do as I wasn't really bothered as we had been clubbing so much. So we got back to hotel, one of the girls was like you made me go home (to me and my mate- who is her sister).

Yet when my mate asked everyone whether they wanted to go home, EVERYONE agreed, including her sister. Then the other girls got involved taking the side of my mates sister, saying they wanted to stay but felt that me and my mate wanted to go home, when in fact I never said that, I said I didn't mind. If they wanted to stay, why didn't they just say!!

Then from that day, there was a clear division, it was me and my mate, and her sister and the other 3 girls who are meant to be OUR friends!! Then we sorted it out, as me and my mate went to their hotel room, as at this point her sister didn't want to sleep in our room, so we went in there and tryed to sort it out. It was all sorted between us friends, except for the sister. Then next day, we went to dinner, and again clear division, they all went off shopping on their own, said they would meet us, but didn't even bother telling us where they were. At dinner, conversation was between them 4 only about their 'shopping trip'. So me and my mate just paid and went off. And the sister is not talking to me, and she admitted I haven't done anything to her, but because me and her sister are bestfriend's shes counting us as a package! :rolleyes:

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Haven't seen them since we were on the aeroplane! I text one of them yesterday as it was her b'day, and said we should sort this out, but as expected no reply! Atleast I know I've done my bit now. I told my mate I had text her, and she got annoyed saying I shouldn't have bothered and that they should make the effort. Do you think I was wrong to text her? I wanted to be the bigger person and sort this out, but if they are not willing to then it showed me what kinda people they are! and that I shouldn't waste my time on them! I can't believe this has happened, we all got on so well, Iwas close with 1 of the girls in particular apart from my bestfriend who was always with me. The other girl who i've known for 13 years still sided with the others, and didn't even make much of an effort to talk to us! which hurt me!

Sorry this is so so so long! But any advice/comments would be appreciated! :smile:

Reply 1

Sazarina88

11

You've tried to make the effort to patch things up with the txt, time to sit back and wait for them to do something.

Sorry I can't comment much more but most of what you've described is silly, petty arguments which I don't really feel you need advice on as it was in the past - you need advice on what to do now.

Sarah xx

Reply 2

dh00001

16

why do girls make arguments so complicated? why cant you just fight and then get on with it and be fine again like lads :p:

Reply 3

Cirsium

19

One of the many reasons I'm wary about going on holiday with friends
It's much less of a big deal now we're older but when I was in early teens my mum counselled me against agreeing to go on holiday with my best mate because, especially when you're tired, and everybody's trying to make sure everyone else has a good time it's really easy for these arguments to get blown out of proportion. I'd say forget about it - now you're back it's likely to be forgotten.

Reply 4

Sithius

16

All of you, excluding the topic creator and maybe your mate, seem like a bunch of little kids. Ignore them.

Reply 5

Louher

They'll soon realise how pathetic is all is. Just keep on the way you are, don't start getting into slagging matches as there's no way back once you start bitching. It should blow over soon enough, they'll miss you and probably meet you half way. With a bit of luck anyway lol

Reply 6

Alewhey

If you weren't anonymous I'd rep you for using 16 exclaimation marks in that passage.

Reply 7

Sithius

16

Alewhey, rep me pos instead :P

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

Thanks for your posts, and to Alewhey, damn I didn't know I used that many explanation marks lol. I have to post anon, because some people on here went to my college. Alewhey, you can give my rep to Sithius lol:P

Anyway, I will just wait and see what happens from now, I've done my bit. :smile:

Reply 9

friendsfreak88

Yeah you definitely have done nothing wrong anyway so it is not up to you to patch things up but it really shows that you are being a mature person and want to sort things out. You friends are just acting really immature at the moment and when they see that they will want to sort things out I am sure. As they are still being petty you probably don't want them as friends at the moment anyway.

Just Got Back From Holiday, Had A Major Arguement With Friends!.

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