Girls why are you soo shy? lol Watch
PS If you are confident and have at some point said hi first to guys then...i guess ignore this post!
A) Women like men to chase them. It helps validate their insecurities (which are WAY too common in our society for both men and women.)
B) Makes them look attractive too their fellow female friends.
C) It's exciting for a girl to have a guy chase her.
D) They'll have about 10 guys talk/chat them up every time they go out. Yes you as a male may seem nice/attraction but there's nothing different about you that makes you stand out from the crowd.
Most of the time if a girl starts chatting you up its either because she's up for a bit of fun, is empowered or simply doesn't care what others think of her.
The best method of chatting up women is to simply DO IT. Don't think about it or react to it. Rejection is the best and quickest stepping stone towards becoming a casanova of women. If rejection doesn't matter to you then you'll pull easily.
- Study Helper
Another clue is in the word "shy". You're not a shy person if you can go "hey, know what, I'll just talk to that person, who cares!"
I am not ignoring your post, partly because I think it's useful to have a balanced view on tsr so that we don't have lots of threads with guys whining about the worst types of girls as though they're the only kind that exist (wait, we already do...hmm...never mind) and partly to encourage you.
I made the first move in my relationship and I would encourage other girls to do the same, but I would also encourage you to do the same. If you like a girl, go for it! Nothing risked, nothing gained