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How would someone telling you you're fat make you feel?

Girls..

If a guy you've never met or seen or don't even speak to from TSR, neg repped your boyfriend and told him that you were fat (me). How would you feel? Even if you weren't fat - would it make you feel down and angry? What would you do?

Please leave your comments below :smile:

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Reply 1

I wouldn't be bothered because I'm not fat according to this chart. I can see your point of view though. I hope you feel better soon.

Reply 2

I wouldn't let a person who'd never met me bother me at all. Then again I'm a guy and my rationality dominates my emotions.

Reply 3

id report the person/rep for harssement.

Reply 4

tickular
I wouldn't be bothered because I'm not fat. I can see your point of view though. I hope you feel better soon.



Yeah i get ya. But neither am I - its just typically for it to knock a girls confidence, whatever size you are, no?

Reply 5

Glory
id report the person/rep for harssement.


Lol well i've done the rep so thats a start. lol.

Reply 6

Not bothered at all because at the end of the day, TSR is only a website where different people from different walks of life have different opinions. Your boyfriend loves/likes you for who you are and just recite that to yourself and you shouldn't feel angry at all.

If it bothers you so much then maybe just subscribe and I 'm sure it will show you who repped you and then if you really feel the need to, neg rep them. But overall people who say such things are shallow and low and don't have better things to do other than make others feel bad about themselves. I mean think about it, if they have to do that just to make you feel down then they are probably not happy about themselves hence feel the need to bring someone else down. Anyways the best thing to do is just ignore them. Silence says a lot!

Reply 7

I wouldn't give a rat's arse if they called me fat, however I would be annoyed about the neg rep.

Reply 8

loopymeg
I wouldn't give a rat's arse if they called me fat, however I would be annoyed about the neg rep.


Lol yer i guess! He's worth nothing anyway so it won't do much harm!

Reply 9

loopymeg
I wouldn't give a rat's arse if they called me fat, however I would be annoyed about the neg rep.

priorities....

Reply 10

Why do girls get upset by people insulting them who they don't care about? Some blokes too... it is just so pointless.

Reply 11

Anonymous
priorities....


I don't really care since I'm not fat at all anyway. Yet still, the person would never have met me, and who am I to care anyway?

Reply 12

I dunno really. I'm not fat, but i guess i was just trying to make the point that whatever size a girl is, small, medium, large.. when someone knocks them down it can make you feel really horrible. Especially when you've never met them!

Reply 13

Slightly annoyed. They don't know me in person, to say these nasty comments.

Reply 14

I wouldn't be bothered/take no action because I know im not fat at all and everyonw calls me skinny

Reply 15

slightly annoyed. but when ppl resort to name calling i allways take it as sign that they lost the argument and am just glad that im not that petty.

Reply 16

Woo. I'm in the normal.....


Someone said 'woah, have you lost weight'....that annoyed me.

Reply 17

amywalters
Girls..

If a guy you've never met or seen or don't even speak to from TSR, neg repped your boyfriend and told him that you were fat (me). How would you feel? Even if you weren't fat - would it make you feel down and angry? What would you do?

Please leave your comments below :smile:


Neg rep them back and get all my friends to do the same :wink:

Pettyness rocks!

Reply 18

amywalters
If a guy you've never met or seen or don't even speak to from TSR, neg repped your boyfriend and told him that you were fat (me)


Huh? So you told him he was fat or visa versa?

I wouldn't care, even if I was overweight. I don't let any petty comments like that waste my energy.

Reply 19

The internet is meaningless anyway....