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Boyfriend and I are very close, been together good few years.
He watches porn every now & again, like once a month or two.
It doesn't reallllllly bother me, but was just wondering, what does porn mean to a guy? Does it mean there is lacking in his relationship sexually?
He watches porn every now & again, like once a month or two.
It doesn't reallllllly bother me, but was just wondering, what does porn mean to a guy? Does it mean there is lacking in his relationship sexually?
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I doubt it, but personally, I think that if I ever had a g/f I would stop looking at porn in case it upset her. Lots of couples actually watch porn together. It's just a release for a guy when his g/f isn't around, or if he has no g/f to help him 'release'.
It means, put simply, he's lacking a woman with big tits to stare at. It doesn't mean anything in terms of your relationship until he starts watching it constantly. Find out when he normally watches it or when he's planning on doing so, then ask him if he wants to go out somewhere. And as long as it's a sensible suggestion, he'll pick you over the TV/computer. 
haha yeah. its doesnt mean much; dont read too much into it
Phew, was worried it was going to be all men replying to this for a second and we'd look biased. 
sparkle86
My bf doesn't watch porn on his own anymore, he only watches it with me. At least I don't think he watches it on his own. Lol. I wouldn't really be too bothered though. A man's gotta do what a man's gotta do.
Karen x
Karen x
But a man hasn't "gotta" watch porn.
It's not a life requirement.
And girls don't "gotta" shop, but guys let them get on with it.
Jeez, it's a thing guys do sometimes and it has no reflection on how well he's satisfied in bed. Unless he's addicted to it and you never have sex with him or something else extreme. You'll know when it's a problem, once or twice a month isn't a problem.
Jeez, it's a thing guys do sometimes and it has no reflection on how well he's satisfied in bed. Unless he's addicted to it and you never have sex with him or something else extreme. You'll know when it's a problem, once or twice a month isn't a problem.
There have been many studies that show that watching pornography raises sexual expectations for males and therefore, they are not as satisfied in the bedroom. In other words, they have unrealistic expectations out of sex. Take it for what it is worth. Most men will look at porn regardless of some stupid study, lol.
ive actually lost interest in porn last year....just doesnt do anything for me anymore lol i think there is something wrong with me
iceman_jondoe
ive actually lost interest in porn last year....just doesnt do anything for me anymore lol i think there is something wrong with me
or you grew up
yeah I guess I shouldn't read too much into it then. It just feels a bit... I dono, hurts ever so slightly. But then again he hardly watches it so I shouldn't feel this way I suppose. Oh well!
TKR
before h and r i never realised what skewed views of pornography so many people (especially young, supposedly open-minded girls) have
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sparkle86
Lol, no I always used to think it was wrong for a girl to enjoy porn. It's not weird is it?
Karen x
Karen x
no its not wierd many women like porn they just dont admit it as much as guys do.
OP dont worry abou it, guys watch porn it doesnt mean anything bad towards you,
A lot of people still seem to have this deep rooted disapproval of it which they simply can't shake. The way people speak about it belies the fact that deep down they DO think there is something dirty and wrong about porn/masturbation which is just silly.
People also seem to think that jerking off is something only adolescent boys do and that it's something men "grow out of" which simply isn't the case. There's just this overriding implied 'virtue' in abstaining from watching porn/masturbation. It's very Victorian.
People also seem to think that jerking off is something only adolescent boys do and that it's something men "grow out of" which simply isn't the case. There's just this overriding implied 'virtue' in abstaining from watching porn/masturbation. It's very Victorian.
TKR
A lot of people still seem to have this deep rooted disapproval of it which they simply can't shake. The way people speak about it belies the fact that deep down they DO think there is something dirty and wrong about porn/masturbation which is just silly.
People also seem to think that jerking off is something only adolescent boys do and that it's something men "grow out of" which simply isn't the case. There's just this overriding implied 'virtue' in abstaining from watching porn/masturbation. It's very Victorian.
People also seem to think that jerking off is something only adolescent boys do and that it's something men "grow out of" which simply isn't the case. There's just this overriding implied 'virtue' in abstaining from watching porn/masturbation. It's very Victorian.
alot of women have a disapproval of porn not because it is exploitation of masturbation/sex
they hate it because it paints an unrealistic picture, and feel they cannot measure up to huge inflated tits and long blond hair, big made up eyes and so forth. and guys love it so much, its just daunting & intimidating.
but its on TV, its not real, no one thinks its real, we know its fake, and you forgot to mention the guys built like arnie adn hung like a horse, but we dont get intimidated by that
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