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People seeing you sleep naked

This is the problem:

I am male and 19 years old and I have a room in a friends house. I get on great with the family.

There is no lock on my bedroom door, and people in the house don't knock before entering. The mother of the house often comes into my room to wake me up or get stuff out of my room that she needs. The problem is, I often find my self naked when I wake up due to the heat. I am not aware of taking boxers off in the night, but it happens. And as lots of teenage males, I often wake up with erections.

So people are in my room and seeing me like this. I am not comfortable with it but what can I do? Moving out is on the agenda, but til then?

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Reply 1

seafairy

Just tell them how hot it is..that you cant sleep with clothes on..therefore please knock before entering my room..

Reply 2

supertramp

Just keep wearing the boxers, even if you take them off or not. Try getting in the habit of pulling a corner of the covers over your abdomen. And most importantly, talk to the mother and ask her if she will please knock first, because you don't want her to see you that way.

I know how you feel. I have the big problem of people walking in when I sleep nearly naked too, and no matter how much I tell them not to, they still do it AND leave the bedroom door open! And because it happens so early in the morning I am still asleep and can't do anything about it. Grr.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

I think I would feel even more uncomfortable with having that conversation. Having them know that I know that they see me like that would be even more embarrasing for me....

And I can't help taking the boxers off, I never do it knowingly....

And the erections are even more embarrasing.....

Reply 4

supertramp

Tell them in a "by the way" sort of fashion, as if you are just warning them in case. You've got to tell them, since there's nothing else you could do about the situation. Just say it in private.

Reply 5

seafairy

OR get your friend to tell them..or doesnt he know..?

Reply 6

bedbug

I would have thought if they had walked in on you and seen you like that once they wouldn't be in a rush to do it again. You have to talk to them about it or they'll keep coming in.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

lucidia

OR get your friend to tell them..or doesnt he know..?

errr....no SHE doesn't know.

Even more embarasing ang akward!

Reply 8

benisright

Dont bloody talk to them and stop worrying you big goose.

Reply 9

seafairy

i imagine she would be..

why dont you try and wake up before they do, re-arrange your covers etc then go back to sleep..OR make sure you are always up before they are..only thing i can think of..

Reply 10

Talya

The mother probably likes what she sees, that's why she keeps doing it.

Reply 11

neal.

the mother clearly wants you to give it to her if she repeatedly comes in when you are naked avec boner

i say... go for it!

Reply 12

Purple

Keep a window open, it would then be slightly cooler and you will be more likely to keep your boxers on.

Reply 13

Talya

kirstinx

Keep a window open, it would then be slightly cooler and you will be more likely to keep your boxers on.

And more mosquitos will bite you!

Get a fan.

Reply 14

Burky

Get mosquito netting and leave a window open.
Works great.
Fan's are no good, if the ventilation is poor.

Reply 15

Russell_G

ever thought that maybe u sleep under the covers so when she comes in she sees nothing, then u throw the covers off when you're asleep then wake up? i don't think a mum would wanna keep doing it to you - she must appreciate why you dont want her seeing you nude.

Reply 16

Highlander

I am not aware of taking boxers off in the night, but it happens.

because it's not you that took them off...

Reply 17

tessa

get an alarm clock!!!!so u wake up before she comes in to check ur up or whatever....and u dont have to say the reason u would like them to knock before entering..

Reply 18

Keybolasosa

tessa

get an alarm clock!!!!so u wake up before she comes in to check ur up or whatever....and u dont have to say the reason u would like them to knock before entering..