The last two girls I was with made the effort with me but overall it's rare.
I came to a point a while back where I realised i'd spent most of my life making all of the effort with women and thought it was only fair that I had it made with me a few times.
I respect girls who have the confidence to make an effort and don't care about seeming desperate. But then again I tend to go for girls who do what they want without being paranoid of what others think of them all of the time. That's maturity. We live in 2014, not the 1950's anymore, more women need to start pulling their weight and men need to stop putting all women on a pedestal (speaking generically).