my bf fed my friend...shud i be jealous?

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me and my bf and a group of fds went out somewhere for pasta, my bf asked if ne1 wanted to try his dish, then my fd said yes, my bf pushed his plate towards her but then she said to my bf in a girly voice 'aww arent u gonna feed me' and he did, he did and later on i told him how uncomfortable that had made me feel and he apologised saying he felt inclined to do it, and that he thought it was weird too and promised he wouldnt do it again...then on another pccasion we went somewhere, and my fd and bf did the same thing ...(my bf fed her again) although in front of her bf, i confronted him again, and he said 'oh i forgot u were really pissed off last time' so am i being ott?
whatever the response, guys and girls...

Reply 1

smilee172

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sweetymango

me and my bf and a group of fds went out somewhere for pasta, my bf asked if ne1 wanted to try his dish, then my fd said yes, my bf pushed his plate towards her but then she said to my bf in a girly voice 'aww arent u gonna feed me' and he did, he did and later on i told him how uncomfortable that had made me feel and he apologised saying he felt inclined to do it, and that he thought it was weird too and promised he wouldnt do it again...then on another pccasion we went somewhere, and my fd and bf did the same thing ...(my bf fed her again) although in front of her bf, i confronted him again, and he said 'oh i forgot u were really pissed off last time' so am i being ott?
whatever the response, guys and girls...

to be completely honest i think you're being quite petty, if you worry about things like that you would be a nightmare if something major happened between u!

Reply 2

high priestess fnord

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tbh i think the feeding thing is way too trivial to get worked up over but i would be annoyed if i told my bf explicitly not to do something and he just did it again anyway.

Reply 3

A Y A Z

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Just a little bit of fun.

Reply 4

Ella_belle

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To be honest, if there was anything going on they probably wouldn't be flaunting it in front of you.

However I think you should talk to your friend about it, as she seems to be the one flirting with your boyfriend.

Reply 5

Keybolasosa

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To me it sounds like your friend likes your boyfriend (or BF if you like).

I'd be slightly bewildered if a girlfriend of mine fed one of my friends.

Reply 6

filastini

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He shouldn't have done it again if he said he won't do it again [especially when he knows you don't like it]. The fact that he said he won't do it again changes everything, regardless of how 'small' whatever he did was.

Because of that - he's in the wrong.

Reply 7

Keybolasosa

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Anonymous

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Reply 8

Glory

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Keybolasosa

i wouldnt worry, im pretty sure he/she will be banned soon enough.

Back to the topic: OP you may of over reacted a bit, but i guess if my friend was getting my chap to feed her id be having a go at her and not him. Seems like your friend likes your chap, it really couldn't be more obvious.

Ive never been fed by my boyfriend, that might be worth trying one day :smile:

Reply 9

tis_me_lord

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Personally I wouldn't like that either, I hate flirting when you're with somebody.

You're not over-reacting, that is quite a weird thing to be doing.

Reply 10

sweetymango

OP

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Glory

i wouldnt worry, im pretty sure he/she will be banned soon enough.

I saw a worrying post from them just before yours, but they've deleted it now...hmmm....

Im assuming that everyone's who's responded have a bf, and have considered if they were in the same situation :smile:

Reply 11

filastini

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sweetymango

I saw a worrying post from them just before yours, but they've deleted it now...hmmm....

Im assuming that everyone's who's responded have a bf, and have considered if they were in the same situation :smile:

I don't have a bf ^o)