right basically i went out with this guy for couple of months in a long distance r-ship until he dumped me citing that i tried too hard to please him and it wasn't working for him. anyway i've been trying to get a cd off him for a while now and he said that would be ok. then i ran into him in our local town and we had a good chat and he seemed friendly so i thought things were ok between us so i emailed him couple of weeks later to make arrangements for me getting the cd back but he didn't reply. i don't want to hassle him or anything but its a special cd and i really want it back, thus i am unsure what to do.