like or love?

ive known this guy for about 6 months now and we have chatted and talked a lot, when im with him i feel happy and i really dont care about anything in the world!
i know by this eveyone might have already thought that "oh, shes in love" lol but no, the thing is sometimes i get a bit grosed out by thim and i really wish i was alone because he's so close up on me and trys to around me as much as he can, im really confused :confused:

what are your opinions on this?

Reply 1

Glory

1

Its not love. I cant explain it, but if it was love you wouldnt be asking that question.

Love is a feeling you cant shake, it eats you up inside when your away from the person you love, you crave to be with them and you only have to think about them and it brings a smile to your face. You life would end if they were taken away forever, you look to the future and cant imagine a day without them.

Reply 2

SilentSi

Glory

Its not love. I cant explain it, but if it was love you wouldnt be asking that question.

Love is a feeling you cant shake, it eats you up inside when your away from the person you love, you crave to be with them and you only have to think about them and it brings a smile to your face. You life would end if they were taken away forever, you look to the future and cant imagine a day without them.

I totally agree with this, if you loved him you would love him being close and wanting to be with you 24/7 and you would feel the same. The only thing that matters if you was in love would be the other person, no matter what the situation he would make you feel better.

Why are you confused? If it's not love then it isnt a problm, just carry on and you never no, you might fall in love and your question will be answered.

Reply 3

Louher

If you need to ask you're not in love.

Reply 4

RachelBabyfrog

14

Even habits/things people might find annoying usually can be endearing if you love someone... :smile:

Reply 5

sarahb

Louher

If you need to ask you're not in love.

amen!

Reply 6

filastini

14

sukhi31

ive known this guy for about 6 months now and we have chatted and talked a lot, when im with him i feel happy and i really dont care about anything in the world!
i know by this eveyone might have already thought that "oh, shes in love" lol but no, the thing is sometimes i get a bit grosed out by thim and i really wish i was alone because he's so close up on me and trys to around me as much as he can, im really confused :confused:

what are your opinions on this?

Either you like the attention [when he's not too close up to you] or he's a nice person in general and you get along well [and you're confused that maybe that getting along well might mean something] but it probably doesn't in your case.

Reply 7

Solid_L

11

Pretty simple, if you love someone there is absolutely no doubt in your mind whether you love them or not :smile:

Reply 8

Sithius

16

Glory

Its not love. I cant explain it, but if it was love you wouldnt be asking that question.

Love is a feeling you cant shake, it eats you up inside when your away from the person you love, you crave to be with them and you only have to think about them and it brings a smile to your face. You life would end if they were taken away forever, you look to the future and cant imagine a day without them.

That's more obsession then love IMO.

Reply 9

Apricot Fairy

16

Glory

Its not love. I cant explain it, but if it was love you wouldnt be asking that question.

Love is a feeling you cant shake, it eats you up inside when your away from the person you love, you crave to be with them and you only have to think about them and it brings a smile to your face. You life would end if they were taken away forever, you look to the future and cant imagine a day without them.

I agree with the first part of this, but not the part about your life ending if they were taken away. People lose the people they love all the time, and yes, it ****ing hurts, but eventually it gets easier. I'm in no doubt that I loved my ex, but after six months of crying myself to sleep every night after we split up, I met someone else and started to feel better. There is life after love.

Reply 10

Cøda

Louher

If you need to ask you're not in love.

Glory

Its not love. I cant explain it, but if it was love you wouldnt be asking that question.

Love is a feeling you cant shake, it eats you up inside when your away from the person you love, you crave to be with them and you only have to think about them and it brings a smile to your face. You life would end if they were taken away forever, you look to the future and cant imagine a day without them.

My thoughts exactly.

Reply 11

Mike_Davies

Hmmm ok I dont see why your asking a forum, not meaning to dis anyones advice but if your picking out whether you love a guy or not by asking a group of people that are going only on the information you have provided then you obviously cant be totally in love with him!! Maybe you love him as a friend and want more but are scared the friendship will be ruined??

Reply 12

generalebriety

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Mike_Davies

Hmmm ok I dont see why your asking a forum, not meaning to dis anyones advice but if your picking out whether you love a guy or not by asking a group of people that are going only on the information you have provided then...

You obviously don't come here much. :smile:

There is life after love. Otherwise people would be dropping dead everywhere. What about in other cultures where it's possible to love more than one person? Why is that suddenly impossible here? Or are they just wrong? :rolleyes:

Reply 13

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