Women and holiday romances

I am head over hills in love with my girlfriend but she is going on holiday soon for a week. Even though i know she probably wouldnt. there is still a feeling at the back of my mind that she could have a holiday romance or something with someone. I think it is just one of my little insecurities, but wondered what other people thought and whether they felt the same with their girlfriends going away. So what do you think the chances are of her having a holiday romance, and secondly do girls cheat on men on holiday etc?
By the way she is going away with her family, not with her friends, although her mother is a bit of a party animal.

Reply 1

generalebriety

Blah... do you know you can trust her? In other words, how long have you been together, how trustworthy is she, how well do you know her? Besides, even if she does have a 'holiday romance', you know it won't last... not that that's a consolation, but you know she won't be running off with some other guy at least.

Reply 2

Fleece

head over hills or head over heels?

annnnnnnyway...depends really on how she feels about you and how much you trust her. I mean, of course girls go on holiday and cheat on their boyfriends, but there are also plenty of girls who won't do that.
The fact she's going with her family is a bit more reassuring I would think - even if her mother is a party animal, I don't think she's likely to condone her cheating or encourage her to pull someone sorta thing.

Talk to her about it if you're worried, she should be able to put your mind at rest, but I'd be concerned with the lack of trust in your relationship.

Reply 3

generalebriety

Fleece

head over hills or head over heels?

Dunno about you, Fleece, but my head stays above my heels most of my life. :eek3:

Reply 4

Fleece

Indeed. Brummyman must have some sort of mountains strapped to his feet.

Reply 5

username47781

well if she truely loves you she won;t do anything

Reply 6

Dee27

It's highly unlikely she will cheat on you. Of course some girls probably cheat on guys when they go on holiday, but most don't, especially not if you're in a good trusting relationship. Don't get worked up over nothing, an ex of mine got uneasy when I went on holiday with family, didn't like the distance, then ended up cheating on me whilst I was away. Not all girls have holiday romances, and the fact that she's going with family makes it all the more unlikely, regardless of her mother's "part animal" character!