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14 year old and love?

Anonymous #1

Is it possible for a 14 year old to find true love?

Reply 1

hjfghjv

I dunno, I think most people are still very naive at that age

Reply 2

Clarence

14

Of course it is...if you really believe it is love then i'm sure it is. Don't let any fool tell you you're not in love.

Thats my prophecy. Only you, and thats you, can only know if you are truly in love.

Reply 3

The Mudman

10

Current scientific thinking dictates that there is a non-zero probability of any event occuring, so yes, it is possible.

However, common sense and maturity suggests this is nothing more than puppy love.

Reply 4

username9303

3

Tough, but possible.

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

i really like this guy, i mean when i think about him i end up with this big smile on my face and feel as if theres nothing wrong however when i dont get a call, mail or i havnt seen him for a day i feel as if something wrong, even if his computer iss busted or something, i liked him when i was 14 and still do (im 15now lol) most people i have asked said nah you cant be in love you a kid and its nothing more than minor crush, but when i ask my self i know i love him, but it does sound silly for a 14/15 year old to fall in love so i just needed some opinions and thoughts of others.

Reply 6

The Mudman

10

Anonymous

i really like this guy, i mean when i think about him i end up with this big smile on my face and feel as if theres nothing wrong however when i dont get a call, mail or i havnt seen him for a day i feel as if something wrong, even if his computer iss busted or something, i liked him when i was 14 and still do (im 15now lol) most people i have asked said nah you cant be in love you a kid and its nothing more than minor crush, but when i ask my self i know i love him, but it does sound silly for a 14/15 year old to fall in love so i just needed some opinions and thoughts of others.

It can only be true love if he loves you back, for a start. It may be a major crush, but it may also be love (although not true love). I miss all kinds of people, doesn't mean I fancy them, or am in love with them. It's good that you can have something that makes you feel so good, just at a thought.

Edit: Apologies for grammar, but it was a long night lol

Reply 7

Glory

1

i doubt most 14/15 year olds have a high enough maturity to understand and handle adult love. Sounds like teenage love to me, simular to the adult variety but will probabily blow over soon.

I remember my first love, very simular to how you described it. But i realise now it wasn't love just something simular which could be easily confused with love.

Reply 8

The Mudman

10

Glory

i doubt most 14/15 year olds have a high enough maturity to understand and handle adult love. Sounds like teenage love to me, simular to the adult variety but will probabily blow over soon.

I remember my first love, very simular to how you described it. But i realise now it wasn't love just something simular which could be easily confused with love.

Exactly. Puppy love, not true love.

Reply 9

tis_me_lord

14

If you can feel it about other people it isn't love, and it isn't anything special. You could find this with other people simply because you're trying to find it.

I'm not really sure what love is, or if it exists. I wouldn't worry about looking for it, but instead just making it work with whoever you happen to be with at the time.

Or something.

Reply 10

username47781

20

motoko

I dunno, I think most people are still very naive at that age

I agree, your feelings at 14 change so much compared to when you reach say 21, one day you like this guy but the next day you won't like the guy, most important thing though is to take things slow.

Reply 11

Helenia

20

Anonymous

i really like this guy, i mean when i think about him i end up with this big smile on my face and feel as if theres nothing wrong however when i dont get a call, mail or i havnt seen him for a day i feel as if something wrong, even if his computer iss busted or something, i liked him when i was 14 and still do (im 15now lol) most people i have asked said nah you cant be in love you a kid and its nothing more than minor crush, but when i ask my self i know i love him, but it does sound silly for a 14/15 year old to fall in love so i just needed some opinions and thoughts of others.

Hehe, sounds so like me at 14. :redface:

I would have died for this guy, and he hated me. But looking back, no it wasn't anything like real love.

Reply 12

Ella_belle

1

Juliet was 14. However she also did kill herself.

You're not in love sweetheart. You're hormonal. It'll pass eventually.

Reply 13

tctc

i was in love from 13 till 18...

Reply 14

Segat1

16

If it feels like love, then it is. 14 yr old love is different to 24 yr old love because you compare your 24 yr old love to the 14yr old love and say "Nah, I wasn't, cos it doesn't feel like this" - so you need the comparison.

:lovie:

You can be in love at any age. Don't let anyone tell you differently.

Reply 15

Clarence

14

Don't Listen. If you believe you are in love then don't let anybody tell you different!

Reply 16

tctc

so your not in a relationship with him..
when i was that age... there was liking someone (that felt like love at that age)
but when your in a relationship with them you feel something different (and that felt more like love)
so its all relative..

Reply 17

Harv616

9

Love and high school should never mix

Reply 18

tctc

BhArJ

Love and high school should never mix

I think most people from my high school would beg to differ :p:

Reply 19

Harv616

9

tctc

I think most people from my high school would beg to differ :p:

If you get into a serious relationship and that age, either the girl will get bored dump you/cheat on you, or the guy will just cheat on you for the fun of it :rolleyes:

14 year old and love?

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