My mate is being really wierd

But to be honest, you must have done something to him to upset him whatever for him to ignore you like that.

Maybe someone stole his phone and your texting that someone who stole the phone, therefore they wouldnt really want to pick up. Errm if not, go up to your mate face to face and ask them what the problem is.

he never replies this has been going on for about 2 months now. the last time i spoke to him in april he was fine and i jsut can't understand why he's decideing to ignore me all of a sudden? What do you guys think i should do?

id say try and arrange a face to face chat

if thats possible (i have no idea how far away etc you live from each other)

there does seem to be a big issue though...not talking for that length of time is odd.

have any other freinds/associates spoken to him?

i live in london and he lives in a remote village on teh ssusex coast and neither of us drive so meeting face to face will be a problem. he doesn't know my other friends i don't know his.

the whole situation is really stressing me out, what have i done to deserve this?

how long have you been freinds?

as i feel that would be a major factor in whats happening

ie if you havent been long..it could just be that he doesnt see you as as good a freind as you see him, so has just abandoned you

but alternatively...if youve been freinds for years, it could be something like a reason only the freind knows (ie something a bit more serious than just getting bored of the freindship etc)

i've known him for about 3 years. we first got to know each other cos we shard a house in our final year at uni that was in 2003/2004 and since then we've kept in touch until now when he's acting all weird.

hmm...not sure what advice i can give then, as you seem quite close freinds (and not just 'freinds' who met on myspace or msn etc and loose contact easily)

your going to have to get in touch with him somehow, maybe just keep bombarding him with emails, calls, texts etc until he at least gives you an answer.

so, all i think i can say is good luck really..as this issue he seems to have can only be said by himself, as it could be anything IMO

hmm...not sure what advice i can give then, as you seem quite close freinds (and not just 'freinds' who met on myspace or msn etc and loose contact easily)

your going to have to get in touch with him somehow, maybe just keep bombarding him with emails, calls, texts etc until he at least gives you an answer.

so, all i think i can say is good luck really..as this issue he seems to have can only be said by himself, as it could be anything IMO

when i say we shared a house in opur final year, i must note it was with 6 other lads (so 8 of as well so it wasn't just me and him sharing a flat).

mate, i've tried texting and phoing like crazy but he just doesn't respond. its driving me mad.

i can understand it must be annoying you really badly

its just that aside from a personal visit (which as youve said cant happen) theres not a lot else you can do.

i dont beleive that this freind has 'lost his mobile' or whatever other people have suggested..as he would have found a way of telling you by now.

so im out of ideas im afraid

hi people,

thought i'd share this with you lot. for some strange reason one of my best mate's is acting really weird. all of a sudden, whenever i phone him he never picks up his phone and whenever i text him, he never replies this has been going on for about 2 months now. the last time i spoke to him in april he was fine and i jsut can't understand why he's decideing to ignore me all of a sudden? What do you guys think i should do?

It's also possible that you've pissed him off or that he just really doesn't like you any more.