Why are women so damn sexy? Women advice please

harrison1984

I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks and she is hot! I'm falling in love with her and don't know how to tell her. :redface:

I love watching her sleep and and caressing her etc. Thing is i'm not sure how she feels about me, I know she fancies me etc but I want to know if she is falling in love with me the way I am for her. Can any girls give me some advice. Women have of a way of getting to a man's heart and ripping it out afterwards. :eek:

Reply 1

LIVELOVELAUGH

harrison1984

I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks and she is hot! I'm falling in love with her and don't know how to tell her. :redface:

I love watching her sleep and and caressing her etc. Thing is i'm not sure how she feels about me, I know she fancies me etc but I want to know if she is falling in love with me the way I am for her. Can any girls give me some advice. Women have of a way of getting to a man's heart and ripping it out afterwards. :eek:

ahh thats great, she must be realllly loverly!!! :smile:

i dont no but maybe you shouldnt say i am falling in love with you, this may scare her off- from experiance i find that men get attched a lot quicker than women do? i dont no why?? So maybe you should say, "i'm really falling for you" or something like that??

please say what you think

:smile:

Reply 2

Glory

1

She will say it when shes ready, if shes anything like me. She will put off saying it til shes sure she means it. Ive been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months and not said it yet, just doesn't feel 100% right yet.

Give her time and dont force the conversation. Just enjoy her while you have her.

Reply 3

amywalters

1

Lol ! So do men! But i love that feeling too.. the unknown is such a better place than to know, once you know you take things for granted, when you dont know how she feels then you give her everything you need to make her happy.

But, it will come when she feels ready. Just make sure you show her everything to make her feel good - and you can't go wrong, she'll have no reason not to love you.

Reply 4

curryADD

12

harrison1984

I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks and she is hot! I'm falling in love with her and don't know how to tell her. :redface:

I love watching her sleep and and caressing her etc. Thing is i'm not sure how she feels about me, I know she fancies me etc but I want to know if she is falling in love with me the way I am for her. Can any girls give me some advice. Women have of a way of getting to a man's heart and ripping it out afterwards. :eek:

that's so sweet.

don't tell her......wait for awhile.

Reply 5

Segat1

16

harrison1984

I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks and she is hot! I'm falling in love with her and don't know how to tell her. :redface:

I love watching her sleep and and caressing her etc. Thing is i'm not sure how she feels about me, I know she fancies me etc but I want to know if she is falling in love with me the way I am for her. Can any girls give me some advice. Women have of a way of getting to a man's heart and ripping it out afterwards. :eek:

This is lovely. Lucky you and lucky girl! I would recommend you tell her in a bit, not quite yet. In all likelihood she feels the same, but doesn't want to say anything to you in case you freak out. :biggrin:

. Tell her you love watching her sleep and being with her. That is fine for now. :suith:

Reply 6

sarahb

i would have to agree, dont tell her yet. you risk loosing her. women only say they love someone when they are 100% sure, and also know that the person they say it to feels the same way

Reply 7

nettle7

A few weeks... steady on!! Agreed ^ it might be best to wait until you know her better, maybe when you are able to see past the 'damn sexiness'.

Reply 8

Harv616

9

You sir, are a fool

It's only been a few weeks!
No way will she say she's in love with you, you will just scare her off if you tell her now.

Reply 9

zav

14

How about "im really glad i found you" not quite as bad. And anyway don't say that untill a few months down the road either

Reply 10

1013

1

A few weeks! Calm down; there is nothing more off-putting than a guy who declares his undying love for you after a few dates.
The truth of it is, you are likely not in love with this girl, rather just infatuated with her. Wait til the new realtionship feeling wears off a bit (it makes people do/say crazy things!) and then see how you feel in a few months. If you still feel you love her then tell her. If she's stayed with you that long, she might just feel the same. No good can come of jumping in feet first.

Reply 11

BeesKnees

16

That's so sweet. Tell her you love watching her sleep and how happy she makes you. Not ready for the love word yet me thinks.

Reply 12

xx Lotz xx

that's well sweet!!

Tell her you've never felt this way about any one before

But i wouldnt mention love yet. Most girls are much more open with there feelings therefore she is likely to telll you she loves you when she is ready.

hope it works out for you both x x

Reply 13

harrison1984

OP

1013

A few weeks! Calm down; there is nothing more off-putting than a guy who declares his undying love for you after a few dates.
The truth of it is, you are likely not in love with this girl, rather just infatuated with her. Wait til the new realtionship feeling wears off a bit (it makes people do/say crazy things!) and then see how you feel in a few months. If you still feel you love her then tell her. If she's stayed with you that long, she might just feel the same. No good can come of jumping in feet first.

I'm not just infatuated with her. I know the difference, I'm really starting to fall in love with her. I know I might be going too fast but truth is I know this girl is the one. I've been in love only once before and I know the difference between infatuation/attraction and love. This is deeper, there are many women I find attraction but very very few who I actually want to be with. Attraction is easy to find. I find it all the time. :p:

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