boyfriend problem

if he doesnt want to talk about it, then leave the matter alone. when he wants to then he'll come to you, make sure that he knows that you are there for him

if he doesnt want to talk about it, then leave the matter alone. when he wants to then he'll come to you, make sure that he knows that you are there for him

i have tried that.
but generally he is being very rude and argh i dont know horibble towards me.

i really cant accept that but if i say something back it will lead to a majorrr argument and i know this time things can get out of control.

what do you mean out of control? has he hit you??

leave the situation alone, and if he's generally geing horrible to you and ignoring you, then ignore him back. if he wants to meet say you can't you're going out with friends and stuff, make him want to be with you. you've been together for a long time- maybe its just getting a bit dull, ignoring him maymake him curious as it were

basically i have been with my boyfriend for five years now and yes i do really love him. The problem is that in these five years we have had good and bad times but bad times dominate the good ones.

Dumping him is not an option because i really do love him eventhough we both are complete opposites.

Like any other couple, we have our little fights now and again but then make up afterwords.

Apparently, i used to be very cheeky and just said anything in my heart straight to anyones face without realising.
I have worked alot on that aswell and he knows i am working on it aswell.

Well now i have really improved the way i am as compared to before but recently he has been having some problems at work.
if i ask him what the problem is i only get these types of replies.

"something"
"someone"
"somestuff"

These sort of replies can get really irritating after a while and i cant keep patient about it.
In addition, he has been cheeking me out so much... ( I am a verryyy sensitibve person when it comes to him so anything bad he says....hits mee soo baddd!!!!)
I am really confussed...if i say something back then it will cause an argument and this means i am making situations worst for him.
But i really can not handle cheek and him being mean to me for something i havent done.

i really dont know what to do.
i fear that i will just burst any time and the situation can get really ugly between us.

no no... he would never hit me.
i meant verbally.

the problem is... he hasnt even expressed any signs of wanting to meet me aswell lately.
its just me who phones him or texts him.
i am the one who says hello to him first on msn.

shall i just ignore him completly then?
i done all that last week but that was mainly beccause i became very ill due to all this stress.
it really hurt afterwods that he couldnt even text me once and ask me how i was or wheree i have been.

i went online after one week and he was being very sweet and then again since yesterday its gone back to the same.

i would, sort of play hard to get- if you do all the running then he becomes complacent where you sare concerned which is unfair and nit deseerved. just leave him to stew make him realize why he needs you- and sorry but if it means you 2 breaking up, then it may be for the best, if you're getting ill over this! your health is more important than his silly whims!

thats what i was thinking.
i cant keep running after him or take his rudeness all the time. i think he will just take that for granted in the long run.

no. i can not dump him atall. i know this because i have tried 3 times before and it has not worked. i just accept him back and i feel like a hypocrit afterwords because i always say "this time i will not accept him back" and eventually after some time i do.

its just how it is...

i mean dont get me wrong we do have our really good times aswell.
dumping him now would mean that i am not being there for him in his hardest times.

plus he will think that i was just with him for his money... (he is on the point of loing his job)

oh well that's undersatndable why's he pissed off! but angeleyes be there for him, but on your terms if he thinks your with him for his money, and you're not then he doesn't know you at all does he!

Yeah every couple goes through a bad patch, just hope hes not getting bored of you, just tell him how much he means to you and if hes like yeah whatever, maybe play the part of hard to get.

Apparently, i used to be very cheeky and just said anything in my heart straight to anyones face without realising.
I have worked alot on that aswell and he knows i am working on it aswell.

*snip*

In addition, he has been cheeking me out so much... ( I am a verryyy sensitibve person when it comes to him so anything bad he says....hits mee soo baddd!!!!)

All i can really say regarding the relationship is just to try see if theres been any change with him around anyone else, ask his mates or something.

P.S:


Not to sound like a ****, but people in glass-houses shouldn't throw stones.