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Never been Kissed!!

Im 18 years old and a guy and never kissed a girl. Is there something wrong with me, is this really bad for someone my age, any1 else my age and haven't kissed any1?

Reply 1

ryan2288

I think its a real shame. Youre such a loser! Actually, I don't think it really matters. If you are really curious, just ask a female friend sometime if you could experiment - she may accept something innocent like a make out session. If not, your time will come soon enough.

Reply 2

Welshdude

Bit harsh 2 call him a loser innit. Dont worry bout it buddy, sum of my mates aint they dont care. hang in there

Reply 3

ryan2288

sigh... perhaps i need to make my sarcasm a little more clear next time.

Reply 4

Welshdude

oh ye sorry m8 i get it lol

Reply 5

sarahb

ive got a mate whos nearly 20 and has never kissed anyone and never had a girlfriend. and hes so happy with that, in fact hes proud of it. dont be ashamed or embarased about it - the majority of girls i know like that in a guy- the dont want a guy thats been around and experienced a lot. plus, when the right girl comes along, she will be so lucky, and it wil be so special and mean so much more!

ryan2288 suggested havin a make out session with a friend - i would have to strongly disagre with him. youve come so far not kissing a girl, dont waste it on a friend. find the right girl and make it special, make it mean something :biggrin:

Reply 6

SevenDeuceOff

14

ryan2288

I think its a real shame. Youre such a loser! Actually, I don't think it really matters. If you are really curious, just ask a female friend sometime if you could experiment - she may accept something innocent like a make out session. If not, your time will come soon enough.

I don't know any girl that would agree to that. That's awful, awful advice. AWFUL.

:p:

Reply 7

forpolarbears

17

I've never been kissed and I'm 17. Actually, though, my friend has offered to be with benefits.....he's quite desperate to kiss me...

Reply 8

SevenDeuceOff

14

sarahb

ive got a mate whos nearly 20 and has never kissed anyone and never had a girlfriend. and hes so happy with that, in fact hes proud of it. dont be ashamed or embarased about it - the majority of girls i know like that in a guy- the dont want a guy thats been around and experienced a lot. plus, when the right girl comes along, she will be so lucky, and it wil be so special and mean so much more!

Your friend sounds like he's either very naïve, or in denial.

ryan2288 suggested havin a make out session with a friend - i would have to strongly disagre with him. youve come so far not kissing a girl, dont waste it on a friend. find the right girl and make it special, make it mean something :biggrin:

I don't think he was being serious. :wink:

Reply 9

aMasterPieceOfDNA

Wait until a nice girl comes along then...GET IN!

Reply 10

Anonymous #2

I've never kissed either and I'm 18 in 4 days. Sometimes I dispair.

Reply 11

BeesKnees

16

it'll happen in good time.Seriously don't worry about it too much. Alotta guys turn 18 without having ever kissed a girl... they just won't admit it to others.

Reply 12

sarahb

Big Man On Campus

Your friend sounds like he's either very naïve, or in denial.

hes not naive and not in denial. he truly doesnt care about it-why should he? just because everyone else around him are kissing loads of people, why should he conform to their expectations?

Reply 13

milesmartin

Dont worry mate, your time will come! I was 17 and a half when i had my first kiss, it comes so naturaly, it almost feels like an anticlimax after you have waited so long, but you will love it when it does!

Im 18 now, had only my second kiss last week lol, once you get one, your confidence will grow more with the females!

Keep in their mate, make it special, and dont look back!

Good luck!

Reply 14

indy_punk

1

Lol dont be hard on yourself about it.It will happen eventually and then the first thought in your head would be *omg,what do i do,this is my first kiss* and then its over :smile:

Reply 15

SevenDeuceOff

14

sarahb

hes not naive and not in denial. he truly doesnt care about it-why should he? just because everyone else around him are kissing loads of people, why should he conform to their expectations?