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am I fighting a loosing battle?

I really like this guy from my Uni. I have liked him ever since i set eyes on him-thats not a joke. From the first moment i saw him i was unbelievably attracted to him. I have just finsihed my first year and over this past year we have become really good friends, and i mean really good. When at Uni I hang around with him all the time, and when were at home, we talk over msn all the time. A while back a friend told him how I felt about him, however this was only about a month after we had met. he said that he didnt feel the same about me. 11 months later, we are really close and I still like him a lot. i know that he thinks im pretty, but that means nothing. He now thinks that I dont like him and he has made it clear he thinks that by several comments he has made. i dont know what to do, should i keep on pretending i dont and just accept that ive got a great friendship with him and get on with it? or do i begin to show hints that i like him? -will that ruin everything?
any advice would be greatful thankyou
Just talk to him! It's that simple.

If you have any semblance of a frienship then an honest chat won't ruin it if your feelings aren't mutual.
Reply 2
No, :smile: Of course you aren't. Just make sure that you tell him how you feel now, before its too late and you regret it. So what if he may not feel the same way back, its still nice to be told that someone fancies you, its not a bad thing at all.

Tell him that you understand if he wants to be good friends, but you'd like to be more, and do you have a chance now or in the future?

Good luck, x