This discussion is now closed.
Check out other Related discussions
- Why can't I make my girlfriend orgasm?
- Masturbation vs sex for women
- A bit confused
- is it normal to not enjoy penetration
- Struggling with self-pleasure
- Female masturbation
- Sex and birth control
- Is sex overrated
- Scared to use a vibrator, any tips?
- Female masturbation
- If I thibk about sex a lot does that mean I'm horny?
- Almost fainted after masturbating
- Do any other girls like guys cumming quickly?
- was it orgasm?
- Im scared
- Am 17 and can't ejaculate
- How does it feel to orgasm as a girl?
- male problems - should I see a doctor?
- I'm terrible at sex (m25)
- why do i keep on peeing instead of orgasm
I can't orgasm :(
Me and my bf have been sleeping with each other and its stop hurting but i don't see what the big deal is about! i don't get any pleasure out of it whatsoever! other girls orgasm and stuff but i can't! whats wrong with me? what should i do?
Scroll to see replies
Aww - orgasms don't happen straight away. Your boyfriend has to get used to what turns you on, try not to be fakely pleasured infront of him - he'll think it turns you on when it doesnt.
Orgasming isnt the be all and end all, there is a very rare chance that your boyfriend will make you orgasm from pure penetration anyway (its very hard to do so).. So try just enjoying the time, chat dirty, tease, take time for oral in your relationship.. And i'm sure that will just feel good in itself.
Perhaps, (sorry guys) try experimenting with yourself, and see what turns you on, then teach your boyfriend the road to success.
Good luck!, x
Orgasming isnt the be all and end all, there is a very rare chance that your boyfriend will make you orgasm from pure penetration anyway (its very hard to do so).. So try just enjoying the time, chat dirty, tease, take time for oral in your relationship.. And i'm sure that will just feel good in itself.
Perhaps, (sorry guys) try experimenting with yourself, and see what turns you on, then teach your boyfriend the road to success.
Good luck!, x
i dont orgasm during sex but i can on my own. but i do feel something good when having sex tho...but its not quite an orgasm. Like the others said make sure he knows what turns you on etc.
yeah ditto^ cuz many guys dont hav a clue bout wat to do ... but hav no problem with the girl saying "do this.." n showing ... or like, if you do something right, go "keep doing that"
When your really close and comfortable with each other its fine. Then, the night you go on holiday, the girl cheats on you bigtime
When your really close and comfortable with each other its fine. Then, the night you go on holiday, the girl cheats on you bigtime
amywalters
Aww - orgasms don't happen straight away. Your boyfriend has to get used to what turns you on, try not to be fakely pleasured infront of him - he'll think it turns you on when it doesnt.
Orgasming isnt the be all and end all, there is a very rare chance that your boyfriend will make you orgasm from pure penetration anyway (its very hard to do so).. So try just enjoying the time, chat dirty, tease, take time for oral in your relationship.. And i'm sure that will just feel good in itself.
Perhaps, (sorry guys) try experimenting with yourself, and see what turns you on, then teach your boyfriend the road to success.
Good luck!, x
Orgasming isnt the be all and end all, there is a very rare chance that your boyfriend will make you orgasm from pure penetration anyway (its very hard to do so).. So try just enjoying the time, chat dirty, tease, take time for oral in your relationship.. And i'm sure that will just feel good in itself.
Perhaps, (sorry guys) try experimenting with yourself, and see what turns you on, then teach your boyfriend the road to success.
Good luck!, x
Not wanting to blow my own trumpet, so to speak. But my girlfriend dosen't find it that hard to cum from penentration.
Even better, let him expirement with you. He clearly needs the practice.
Tim Kabel
yeah ditto^ cuz many guys dont hav a clue bout wat to do ... but hav no problem with the girl saying "do this.." n showing ... or like, if you do something right, go "keep doing that"
When your really close and comfortable with each other its fine. Then, the night you go on holiday, the girl cheats on you bigtime
When your really close and comfortable with each other its fine. Then, the night you go on holiday, the girl cheats on you bigtime
Wow. Want my therapist's number?
ntil your bf knows your body then chances are you wont orgasm through penetration, so he needs to get you going through foreplay. Plus the more orgasms you have the easier and quicker it becomes for you to do so. Then you can enter the realm of muliples, a myth amongst many women, but if you really wanna make your bfs ego go through the roof then teach how to get you there, turn round call him a god and then tell your mates hes a god. He'l be on cloud 9 for weeks
dont want to spoil it for you sm0273, but chances are she's faking it!
Some women do orgasm easily, and some women dont. A lot is down to technique and also a lot is down to the relationship itself. If you just enjoy yourselves with the act rather then the elusive orgasm, then the chances of having an orgasm are higher as there is less stress. When i was with a girl, we used to do it for hours and hours, not neccessarily constant screwing, but enough that we both had a great time
- if either of us didnt cum it didnt matter, we both just wanted to please each other and have fun.
worry about it less, and it will happen - especialyl after LOTS of practise
Some women do orgasm easily, and some women dont. A lot is down to technique and also a lot is down to the relationship itself. If you just enjoy yourselves with the act rather then the elusive orgasm, then the chances of having an orgasm are higher as there is less stress. When i was with a girl, we used to do it for hours and hours, not neccessarily constant screwing, but enough that we both had a great time
- if either of us didnt cum it didnt matter, we both just wanted to please each other and have fun.worry about it less, and it will happen - especialyl after LOTS of practise
sm0273
Not wanting to blow my own trumpet, so to speak. But my girlfriend dosen't find it that hard to cum from penentration.
Even better, let him expirement with you. He clearly needs the practice.
Even better, let him expirement with you. He clearly needs the practice.
Lol every girls different- but GENERALLY, its much easier to orgasm from clit rather than penetration, fact. And some girls find it hard to like Kenny said
But this is off topic anyway kennyboy
dont want to spoil it for you sm0273, but chances are she's faking it!
My gf orgasms through penetration as well, it can happen, maybe smoke is just decent in bed and knows how to pleasure a woman.
All women can orgasm you just need to to find out how
amywalters
Lol every girls different- but GENERALLY, its much easier to orgasm from clit rather than penetration, fact. And some girls find it hard to like Kenny said But this is off topic anyway
But this is off topic anyway Thats exactly what my problem is! ive orgasmed from clit before but i dont seem to get ANY pleasure from penetration.
kennyboy
dont want to spoil it for you sm0273, but chances are she's faking it!
Some women do orgasm easily, and some women dont. A lot is down to technique and also a lot is down to the relationship itself. If you just enjoy yourselves with the act rather then the elusive orgasm, then the chances of having an orgasm are higher as there is less stress. When i was with a girl, we used to do it for hours and hours, not neccessarily constant screwing, but enough that we both had a great time - if either of us didnt cum it didnt matter, we both just wanted to please each other and have fun.
worry about it less, and it will happen - especialyl after LOTS of practise
Some women do orgasm easily, and some women dont. A lot is down to technique and also a lot is down to the relationship itself. If you just enjoy yourselves with the act rather then the elusive orgasm, then the chances of having an orgasm are higher as there is less stress. When i was with a girl, we used to do it for hours and hours, not neccessarily constant screwing, but enough that we both had a great time
- if either of us didnt cum it didnt matter, we both just wanted to please each other and have fun.worry about it less, and it will happen - especialyl after LOTS of practise
dont think so kenny boy. dont try and give me a sex ed lesson either. the chances are iv had more experience than yourself (im not necc talking about numbers here)
Anonymous
Thats exactly what my problem is! ive orgasmed from clit before but i dont seem to get ANY pleasure from penetration.
Why dont you and your partner do positions that enables you to touch your clit at the same time.I had the same trouble where i found penetration really enjoyable buuuut i wasnt able to come from it but added stimulation from the clit sure helped me out.
some women just dont get pleasure from penetration, she dnt need to see a dr
Anonymous
Thats exactly what my problem is! ive orgasmed from clit before but i dont seem to get ANY pleasure from penetration.
I get pleasure from it, but I don't often orgasm from it just on its own, only once every blue moon. I'll tell you what though, positions like doggy often help because of the angles
And it just feels nice.
Enough of the mudslinging on both sides, please. And enough of the men massaging their own egos.
Some girls (can't remember the statistics, but it's a significant percentage) can't orgasm from penetration. An even higher proportion can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation as well. So don't go telling everyone that you could do it better when you don't know what you're talking about. This thread is on its last legs as it is.
Some girls (can't remember the statistics, but it's a significant percentage) can't orgasm from penetration. An even higher proportion can only orgasm with clitoral stimulation as well. So don't go telling everyone that you could do it better when you don't know what you're talking about. This thread is on its last legs as it is.
The average age for women to have their first orgasm is 19 apparently. Fascinating, huh?
Related discussions
- Why can't I make my girlfriend orgasm?
- Masturbation vs sex for women
- A bit confused
- is it normal to not enjoy penetration
- Struggling with self-pleasure
- Female masturbation
- Sex and birth control
- Is sex overrated
- Scared to use a vibrator, any tips?
- Female masturbation
- If I thibk about sex a lot does that mean I'm horny?
- Almost fainted after masturbating
- Do any other girls like guys cumming quickly?
- was it orgasm?
- Im scared
- Am 17 and can't ejaculate
- How does it feel to orgasm as a girl?
- male problems - should I see a doctor?
- I'm terrible at sex (m25)
- why do i keep on peeing instead of orgasm
Latest
Trending
Last reply 2 weeks ago
How can I apply for university and get my letters without my parents finding outLast reply 3 weeks ago
Dealing with and keeping lies to my aggressive parentsLast reply 1 month ago
(Serious) How do I get rid of weird feelings with my boobs and femininity?Last reply 1 month ago
For those of you who have younger cousins or nieces and nephews why do you do this?Fitness
6
8
Last reply 1 month ago
People who claim to wash in 5mins aren’t showering properlyLast reply 1 month ago
2024 has been a horrible year for me overall and I just wanted your thoughtsLast reply 2 months ago
My friend might be getting extra time and i hate it.
