Confused- guys i need ur opinons too

There's this guy i use to go out with, we went to the same school. we went out for a while, then i broke up with him one night.When i broke up with him over the phone he was like "watever" and hung up on me :mad:

he stopped talkin to me for a while, and that mad me mad because i still wanted to b friends with him, and it hurt me so much that after we broke up he started goin out with my friend! i made it seem like i didnt care. then i noticed he was tryin to get my attention all the time, by doin stupid things, pushin ppl into me *jerk* i ignored him i thought why wud i wanna be friends with someone who hurt me....anyways this was like 1 yr ago and this yr the end of school he kept buggin my friend for my number...and he wanted to ask me somethin. so he kept callin me but i keep missin his call but one night we talked and ....he didnt really say anythin and thats the last time i talked to him. but everytime i think hes out of my life he pops back in! :mad:

what does he want from me?????

Reply 1

andy_cole2

14

perhap he questions his manliness in that u dumped him so erm yeah dunno how that relates i think maybe he wants to have the last word in it. to feel like he ended it..closure in his head or something...

Reply 2

benisright

1

Thats rubbish.

He really really likes you. You're like the girl that could have been everything his life is missing, but you dumped him. He wanted to put you out of his head when he stopped talking to you but he wanted you to want him, he wanted you to grab him and kiss him like in the movies.

Thats all.

Reply 3

xx Lotz xx

yeah i agree with "benisright" ha ha ironic eh (his name) lol neways it sounds like he is tryin to attract ya attention by doing stupid things, (an obvious sign he has a crush), n by ignoring you he was obviously trying to 4get about you (which clearly didn't work), i'd say tht u meant / mean more to him then you first thought.

i'd be carefull how u handle him 4rom now on, cz (if u dnt like im in tht way nemore) you need to makes sure he knows tht u dnt feel the same 4 im as u used 2 n jus wana be m8z, but ya wana be careful not to do owt 2 extreme coz he sounds like quite a fragile character n ya dnt wana go braking his heart.
i rekon ya best policy would be to give him time, he clearly needs more time to get over you properly.

good luck with that x x

Reply 4

thegreatstupendo

2

He wants you back, back for good.

Reply 5

generalebriety

16

lil_missez

There's this guy i use to go out with, we went to the same school. we went out for a while, then i broke up with him one night.When i broke up with him over the phone he was like "watever" and hung up on me :mad:

I don't know what happened between you but unless it was something terrible (and no one does something that terrible if you want to remain friends with them after it) you do not dump people by phone. Put mildly, it's ****ing rude.

lil_missez

he stopped talkin to me for a while, and that mad me mad because i still wanted to b friends with him

Gasp! He stopped talking to you after you chucked him by phone! :rolleyes:

lil_missez

and it hurt me so much that after we broke up he started goin out with my friend! i made it seem like i didnt care. then i noticed he was tryin to get my attention all the time, by doin stupid things, pushin ppl into me *jerk* i ignored him i thought why wud i wanna be friends with someone who hurt me....anyways this was like 1 yr ago and this yr the end of school he kept buggin my friend for my number...and he wanted to ask me somethin. so he kept callin me but i keep missin his call

He clearly wants to get back with you.

lil_missez

but one night we talked and ....he didnt really say anythin and thats the last time i talked to him. but everytime i think hes out of my life he pops back in! :mad:

Probably because he didn't expect you to pick up, the way you've been treating him. Either that or you made him feel so crap he didn't know what to say when he finally got through to you.

Reply 6

1013

1

Sounds like he still likes you and wants you back. However, it also sounds like he's kind of immature and not really into dealing with things in the appropriate manner so I'd give him a wide berth.

Reply 7

generalebriety

16

1013

Sounds like he still likes you and wants you back. However, it also sounds like he's kind of immature and not really into dealing with things in the appropriate manner so I'd give him a wide berth.

What is the appropriate manner for getting someone back who's just dumped you by phone?

Reply 8

benisright

1

Appropriate - stop talking to them in person.
Probable - Do that, and bitch behind their back.

Reply 9

goldfiiisheee

i think he still has a thing for you as he is trying...but wont admitt it as you bruised his ego by dumping him over the phone...
dateing your friend was probably to get you jealous.
guys are wierd...

Reply 10

username47781

20

i'm suprised he wants you back after you basically cut him off, unless there was a good reason for dumping him, he probably still does want you but in time he'll move on eventually

Reply 11

Ron Stoppable

14

thegreatstupendo

He wants you back, back for good.

Are the OP's lipstick marks still on his coffee cup?

Reply 12

lil_missez

OP

generalebriety

What is the appropriate manner for getting someone back who's just dumped you by phone?

why is it so bad dumpin someone over the phone?? and when i did he acted like he didnt care unlike the other times

Reply 13

lil_missez

OP

Carl1982

i'm suprised he wants you back after you basically cut him off, unless there was a good reason for dumping him, he probably still does want you but in time he'll move on eventually

he did move on since we broke hes been with 2 girls

Reply 14

lil_missez

OP

1013

Sounds like he still likes you and wants you back. However, it also sounds like he's kind of immature and not really into dealing with things in the appropriate manner so I'd give him a wide berth.

but he has a girl

Reply 15

lil_missez

OP

xx Lotz

yeah i agree with "benisright" ha ha ironic eh (his name) lol neways it sounds like he is tryin to attract ya attention by doing stupid things, (an obvious sign he has a crush), n by ignoring you he was obviously trying to 4get about you (which clearly didn't work), i'd say tht u meant / mean more to him then you first thought.

i'd be carefull how u handle him 4rom now on, cz (if u dnt like im in tht way nemore) you need to makes sure he knows tht u dnt feel the same 4 im as u used 2 n jus wana be m8z, but ya wana be careful not to do owt 2 extreme coz he sounds like quite a fragile character n ya dnt wana go braking his heart.
i rekon ya best policy would be to give him time, he clearly needs more time to get over you properly.

good luck with that x x

its been a yr and a half since we broke up and he had other girls to take his mind off me