Hello Jo
I need your help and advice. I am very unsure of what to do exactly but I know one thing: I want to break away. I have had enough of life.
Back story: I was bullied and abused in childhood. I left to go to university two years ago to escape that environment and to rebuild my life. I have since completed CBT. I thought university would be the best escape plan, especially as I am not being hurt any more. However I feel as though this is not enough. Having a horrible childhood is like a curse: you cannot fully rid yourself of it. I want a massive change to be honest.
For a very long time I have been thinking about running away to another city or country, creating a new identity and starting life afresh. The whole point of this would be in order to completely cut ties with my past and live life the way I want.
I don't know where to get help and advice for this sort of thing, but I need a plan and I need to be able to access a service that helps domestic violence victims escape their past. I was wondering if something like Witness Protection would help me? Problem is, witness protection is for those who testified against someone and I haven't reported any crime. If I did though, I would have no choice but to go into Witness Protection as I would be in danger for reporting what happened to me even though I now live away for university.
This is a drastic move. It makes me sad and angry that I have and, and still have to, sacrifice things to escape what happened and it is so unfair. I would have to leave all my friends behind. I would have to cut of my siblings. But I guess this is the price I would have to pay. I think it is best to completely cut away from everything. I have always wanted to run away, change my identity and start a new life and live a relatively normal existence instead of 'existing' in the life I was born into. I always wanted something different.
What do I do?