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When I like someone, I act really off with them!

When I really like a guy, I get so nervous. I'm fine chatting to them on MSN or text, but when it comes to talking face to face, I just clam up! I really don't know why this is. It even happens when I know that they like me back; for example, recently I pulled a guy and we spent the whole night chatting, but when I saw him again the next night, I felt shy and ended up ignoring him! My mates say I come across to the guy as really cold and aloof, and I must look like such an unfriendly, stuck up cow! I'm really not like that at all, and I don't know why I do it. Please help!
I'm especially worried because I'm meeting this guy soon that I really, really like and I think he likes me back, but I just know that I'll end up beng really silent and aloof when we get together. I've mucked up loads of potential relationships through this weird thing I have and I really need advice on how to get over it! Thanks xx

Reply 1

hanadeka2002

Ditto.I'm always sooo cold and aloof to the objects of my affection and I honestly have NO explanation for it!

Reply 2

Juicy Fruit

Nerves and shyness, obviously.

Reply 3

Beckie_88

All you need to remember is that men are human just like us. Yes from time to time your going to say something stupid! i am sure we have all been there! Just laugh it off and start again. Just be confident! he is likely to be nervous as well if its a first date so your probably both in the same boat.