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being stupid?

I fell out with my ex about five months ago but I never really got ova her. She was the first person I said 'I love you' to and it hit me real hard when we broke up. A new girl is showing an interest and we've been out a few times, but it aint exactly serious.My ex is suddenly back on the scene and I agreed to meet up with her when we get back to uni. Am I being stupid by saying I'll see her again?

Reply 1

well your still free and single so nothing stopping you, but really depends on why you broke up with your ex if it was just over a silly argument maybe its worth trying to work it out, but then again beware because now you got this other girl showing interest and she won't be happy if you go back to your ex.

Reply 2

i dont think your are, no! but what reason did you break up in the first place??when you break up with someone though, you miss them, and you have got to try and not confuse wanting to be friends with her again with you still 'loving her'. Make sure thinsg go slowly and the new friendship, if thats what happens, is on your terms.

hope this makes sense!!??

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Reply 3

It just wasn't working between us. She hurt me a lot in the end but I still can't get her off my mind.

Reply 4

did she hurt you as in cheat on you, if that was the case i wouldn't go running back to her, i'd try out this new girl. Then again if she just said hurtful comments then we all say things in the heat of the moment when we are upset