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He said i needed psychiatric help, HELP PLEASE
SO I split with my ex of 5 months, 3 weeks ago becasue i hacked into his e mails and found he was e mailing his ex fiance saying he still loved her and wanted to get back with her. I ave never dont anything like it before but i knew something was wrong.
I dumped him but stupidly kept on seeing/sleeping with him because i really like him.
Tonight i cought him with his ex (i knew what they were doing coz i cheked his mail) I then sent him a snotty text, he phoned me saying he didnt know hw was meeting her til the last min. I knew he was lieing and told him i knew, he told me i was paranoid and needed help.
There are several things i know hes lying about due to e mails. He swore on my life he didnt love his exwhen ive got saved mail from him to her saying the opposite.
What do i do? tell him i know hes lying coz i hacked into his mail, or cut all ties and never speak to him again.
I dumped him but stupidly kept on seeing/sleeping with him because i really like him.
Tonight i cought him with his ex (i knew what they were doing coz i cheked his mail) I then sent him a snotty text, he phoned me saying he didnt know hw was meeting her til the last min. I knew he was lieing and told him i knew, he told me i was paranoid and needed help.
There are several things i know hes lying about due to e mails. He swore on my life he didnt love his exwhen ive got saved mail from him to her saying the opposite.
What do i do? tell him i know hes lying coz i hacked into his mail, or cut all ties and never speak to him again.
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What good would telling him about you reading his emails do? It won't exaclty make him come running abck to you will it? It'll only cuase furhter arguements.
It looks like the relationship between yuo and him is over and done with, best for you to forget about him and move on.
It looks like the relationship between yuo and him is over and done with, best for you to forget about him and move on.
Thats what id thought people would say!!
Its so difficult though, i mean why does he need to lie, i tiold him i almost found it funny that he was lying to much and he said (with swearing that im not writing!1) that i needed help and was prarnoid, but i know im not its him!!
Its so difficult though, i mean why does he need to lie, i tiold him i almost found it funny that he was lying to much and he said (with swearing that im not writing!1) that i needed help and was prarnoid, but i know im not its him!!
I read my boyfriend's e-mails because I knew something was up, and through that and reading his texts on his mobile, I found out a lot of stuff, turns out he was cheating on me quite a lot 
In fact, I would log into his account while him and one girl were messaging each other, I was watching the conversation and then of course came the plan of meeting up, so I knew all the details. I was there when he met up with her behind my back (was tough pretending I was clueless 
) so I'm probably even more crazy and stalkerish than you. I couldn't tell him or he'd change his password and I wanted it to run its course basically, just to see how much of an ass he actually was. Anyway in the end we worked things out and much later on I told him that I knew everything, how I knew it, and that I'd been there. He was actually impressed and called me a ninja Your ex is just pissed because you caught him in the act.
To be honest, yes it seems like he's a right **** and treated you like crap while you were together but you have broken up now so you should try and stop hacking his account
It's hard to accept but it's not really your business any more. I wouldn't tell him because he really won't take it very well and will just insult you some more! It's enough that he knows you know, he's probably creeped out by that knowledge enough as it is 
In fact, I would log into his account while him and one girl were messaging each other, I was watching the conversation and then of course came the plan of meeting up, so I knew all the details. I was there when he met up with her behind my back (was tough pretending I was clueless ) so I'm probably even more crazy and stalkerish than you. I couldn't tell him or he'd change his password and I wanted it to run its course basically, just to see how much of an ass he actually was. Anyway in the end we worked things out and much later on I told him that I knew everything, how I knew it, and that I'd been there. He was actually impressed and called me a ninja Your ex is just pissed because you caught him in the act.To be honest, yes it seems like he's a right **** and treated you like crap while you were together but you have broken up now so you should try and stop hacking his account
It's hard to accept but it's not really your business any more. I wouldn't tell him because he really won't take it very well and will just insult you some more! It's enough that he knows you know, he's probably creeped out by that knowledge enough as it is Thats waht i thought, hes got a Phd for christs sake, why use your date of birth as a password sooo unoriginal, and hes 27, you would think hes knows better
i so want to tell him, but like the above post, i so want to keep reading his mail!! and it is my business when im still sleeping with him, yes i know im stupid!!
men i hate them!!
men i hate them!!
Ashley I hope you're not still with that guy! That's despicable.
OP, never speak to that guy again. He lied because he's an a*se. Because he's a horrible cheating scumbag. Someone who cheats on you is not going to tell you the truth, are they? This guy is the one who needs the help to grow up, because he clearly can't control his trouser snake. You deserve better!
OP, never speak to that guy again. He lied because he's an a*se. Because he's a horrible cheating scumbag. Someone who cheats on you is not going to tell you the truth, are they?
This guy is the one who needs the help to grow up, because he clearly can't control his trouser snake. You deserve better!
If you broke up with he can sleep with you and as many other women as he wants. Though he is a s**t. And he shouldn't call you paranoid. And you shouldn't care that he is sleeping with you and this other woman, if you have broken up. Unless of course he is in a relationship with her now, in which case he shouldn't be sleeping with you anymore. Or have you stopped sleeping with him now?
Anonymous
Thats what id thought people would say!!
Its so difficult though, i mean why does he need to lie, i tiold him i almost found it funny that he was lying to much and he said (with swearing that im not writing!1) that i needed help and was prarnoid, but i know im not its him!!
Its so difficult though, i mean why does he need to lie, i tiold him i almost found it funny that he was lying to much and he said (with swearing that im not writing!1) that i needed help and was prarnoid, but i know im not its him!!
you have to get out for your sake be brave, cut all ties with this person because he is destroying your life and you are letting him, hes having his cake and eating it with both of you, do you want your body used like that so cheaply.
Anonymous
i so want to tell him, but like the above post, i so want to keep reading his mail!! and it is my business when im still sleeping with him, yes i know im stupid!!
men i hate them!!
men i hate them!!
If you've broken up with him but are still sleeping with him then it is not your busines, as your just having sex, your not in a relationship.
Anonymous
i so want to tell him, but like the above post, i so want to keep reading his mail!! and it is my business when im still sleeping with him, yes i know im stupid!!
men i hate them!!
men i hate them!!
Ooops sorry missed the bit where you said you were still sleeping with him! Umm I'd suggest you try not to, hard as it may be to resist
i asked him several times to tell the truth about something, and he lied evrytime when i know the truth, why would someone do that? guys any opinions, or generally why lie when i said i would rather know the truth? i just dont get him??!!
past insecurities maybe or maybe he's just doing it for fun and hes finding it all a big game, but for your sake don't sleep with him, get out of there ASAP.
I said a week ago that i wanted know contact as it was hurting me too much (he wanted to saty friends- i didnt) but he kept mailing me and phoning, he so does want his cake and eat it, im so stupid for falling for it
LauraDanielle
Well, you could act like everything's ok and continue reading his mails til you've figured out a clever plan to somehow get revenge, maybe somehow involving your access to his email account I'll let you know if I think of anything soon. But for god's sake don't carry on sleeping with him...
I'll let you know if I think of anything soon. But for god's sake don't carry on sleeping with him...Send a text message saying 'Have you been to the clinic to have that rash checked out yet?' and hope that his ex reads it. Or just seek out his ex and tell her about the rash via phone, e-mail or face-to-face.
Because not everyone is nice I'm afraid Some people get happiness out of seeing other's misery. Just try and surround yourself with the good folks
Some people get happiness out of seeing other's misery. Just try and surround yourself with the good folks Anonymous
I said a week ago that i wanted know contact as it was hurting me too much (he wanted to saty friends- i didnt) but he kept mailing me and phoning, he so does want his cake and eat it, im so stupid for falling for it
Well stop being friends from him now, because otherwise your self-esteem will plummet even lower and then you will need help, but its an easy mistake to make so many people fall for it, but it's best to get out, the sooner the better, although it won't feel like it at first, your life will then be a whole lot better without that jerk.
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