I've been with her for nearly 2 years, of which the last year has been a long distance relationship. We see each other about every 2 weeks, sometimes more and sometimes less often depending on circumstances.
Due to several factors, my social life is very limited at the moment and I must admit that I feel pretty miserable most of the time. I'm not really enjoying my work and just feel I have nothing to look forward to after my long day.
The problem is, that people at my work are mostly in their 30's with families and simply have their own lives. There's a couple of young people like me but they're also busy with other things.. I mostly spend my time working out at the gym as that's something I love doing. Fol health reasons, I rarely go out (as in bars or clubs).
My girlfriend on the other hand, works at a place where most people are in their 20's and she has something to do nearly every night. People at work are always organising fun things to do, she goes to nights out, houseparties and has lunch with friends (including male friends). This is something that I don't have..
This weekend I went with people from work for a change which was great fun. At the end I bumped into a girl as I was looking for a place and couldn't find it, so she helped me. She asked me for my phone (I was like why do you need it?) and then put her number in there and told me to text her sometime. Stalked her fb in the morning and found out that she's actually really cute and a model of some sort..
Would it be OK to go and have lunch with this girl for example? this is the kinda thing that's missing from my life that would just make me so happy. To meet new people, go and have lunch with girls (ok, am I even fooling myself with those intentions?)
What do you think? Would it be fine to "see" other girls if it wouldn't lead to anything? It just feels so unfair that I have to be bored 90% of the time and she has so much more fun all the time..