good idea or not?

i did some very stupid things and i want to apoligise to this teacher. i have feelings for him but i didnt know what they were so i assumed i fancied him. in the process i did some very silly immature things and he found out i 'fancied' him. but ive grown to realise that my feelings for him are that i see him as a father figure and as someone to look up to. ive seen him getting angry and frustrated and i want to apoligise for putting him into an awkward position, and put him at ease for the things ive done since he thinks i fancy him and may avoid me when i go back to school in september.
ive realised how stupid ive been and i want to know if its a good idea to apoligise to him?

Reply 1

Liar

12

Yeah i'd appologise to him. It'll be embarrassing sure but at least you can then move on instead of theings being really awkward with him in September.

Reply 2

crazyhead

3

What you have wriiten sounds very mature and shows you have def got your head around this so yes i would explain what you have said, it cant makes matters any worse.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

OP

how should i approuch him? he might think im about to confess my undying love for him and be freaked out for a second. it would be very embarasing. im starting the 6th form at my school in september..he hasnt taught me since yr 9 but he defo knows me. hes not going to teach me again in sept since im not doing his subject (english language) but i am doing english literature so i will see him a bit...itll be embarasing but how could i tell him in a mature way?

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

i would really appreciate some advice on how to tell him in a mature way. please.

Reply 5

yo-sup-man

1

Anonymous

how should i approuch him? he might think im about to confess my undying love for him and be freaked out for a second. it would be very embarasing. im starting the 6th form at my school in september..he hasnt taught me since yr 9 but he defo knows me. hes not going to teach me again in sept since im not doing his subject (english language) but i am doing english literature so i will see him a bit...itll be embarasing but how could i tell him in a mature way?

well if his in none of your classes, then i suggest you just leave it and dont say nothing. Your could just make it worst for your self if you continue it on a new school term, Its probly all done and dusted now so dont bring it up. How do you even know he knows you fancy him? You could just make your self look silly. P.s Teachers got to expect this sort of thing (espically female teachers from those horny boys) So just move on and think nothing on it , Your only a child to him .. he wont take it seriously.

Reply 6

History_is...

6

i would adivse you to say nothing - if you dont have to see him just leave it, and hopefully anough time will have passed for things to return to normal. If you go apologise you will have gone out of your way to see him and talk to him, and revived the whole issue.

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