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Also, is it okay for you if your partner sleeps with others?
And is it okay for you to make your best friends become your friends with benefit?

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Maybe for some couples but for me it be a definite no way. It only lead to problems.
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Yes.
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I think it should be discussed with your partner. Some couples will agree that it is ok, and so then when they have sex with other people, it does not hurt their partner since it has been agreed already within the relationship. Personally I don't think I would like that in a relationship, I would prefer to not have FWB as well. But who knows what I will think in the future, your mind can change a lot on a few years and I'm only young.
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Some couples may want that but for me personally I wouldn't want either
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Personally? NO.
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If you're sleeping with other people while you're in a relationship, you're not really in a relationship, in my opinion. I wouldn't want a boyfriend of mine to be sleeping with other people and I wouldn't expect him to be okay with me doing it either.

Making an existing friend into a FWB is different, I think it's doable, but you need to be careful that you're both on the same page and are not going to let it interfere with the friendship.
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Not for me.

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Threesome or nothing.
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Just be single?
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no waaay...
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Obviously not.
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(Original post by TeresaCho)
Would you still have sex with your friends with benefit if you're in a relationship?
Also, is it okay for you if your partner sleeps with others?
And is it okay for you to make your best friends become your friends with benefit?

Tell me how do you think


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- No. o.o
- No. I used to think I would be absolutely fine with 'cheating', that it wasn't a problem and that so long as I was the one above it all, it would be fine. But, as I said in the other thread, then I 'fell' in love. I think few relationships that are polyamorous can have true love.
- Certainly, if both people are mature about it and understand what they are getting into.
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I think it should be discussed with your partner. Some couples will agree that it is ok, and so then when they have sex with other people, it does not hurt their partner since it has been agreed already within the relationship. Personally I don't think I would like that in a relationship, I would prefer to not have FWB as well. But who knows what I will think in the future, your mind can change a lot on a few years and I'm only young.
Nah.

However much you 'agree' - people will get hurt.
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It's not a proper relationship if you do.
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if youre in a dedicated relationship then no. in an open relationship, yes. but dont work on the assumption that in any relationship this would be ok. in fact in most it wouldnt.
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Also, is it okay for you if your partner sleeps with others?
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Absolutely yes. It diversifies the relationship. You get more action and different kinds of it, what's not to love
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Nope I believe in monogamy

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Nah.

However much you 'agree' - people will get hurt.
Yeah that's my opinion too, but I've known people who seem fine in open relationships, the concept is a bit alien to me.
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