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any advice? - hey i was wondering wot i do next?

hey i was wondering wot i do next?
ive liked this boy mate 4 ages and some people say he has abit of a thing for me to. so last nite things eventually clicked. the thing is hes liked my mate for ages we all say hes "besotted" especially after her bad split up with her ex. he rings her up every night just to "see if shes ok" and she rarely txts him. for the reason as she dont like him the way he does about her. i also fancy his mate to and have discussed it with the guy in question.

So last nite after a few drinks we became very flirty and went to 3rd base(ish) and then fell asleep in each others arms it was lovely! apart of me feels ive let him down as he had to finish the job himself because whatever i did he didnt come. this morning we were still very cuddly i went downstairs to get a drink and realised i was late for shopping with my mum. so i quickly said im going and explained why but he seemed miffed! the tension was horrible!

what you think i should do txt him and say what? but im worried he will be regretting what we did especially as he likes my mate more than me??!
i know its a pickle just this will help clear my head!!
thanx :smile:
Reply 1
just drop in a txt, see where he's at with it all - it seems he's quite an 'obvious' kinda guy so finding out what he wants etc shouldn't be a problem..
Reply 2
hey can explain what u mean? "obvious" guy? shud i feel bad?
thanx :smile:
Reply 3
if he seemed annoyed when you said you were leaving, it doesnt sounds as tho he regrets it! i would just text him and just ask him straight out, ask him if last night meant anything to him or if it was just the drink workin!!! and see what he replies with to decide what to do further