did i let him down?

last nite me n this lad mate got abit physical. ive had a thing 4 him for abit (i also heard he had abit of a thing 4 me) so after them few drinks it got physical. but i feel as though ive let him down as he had to finish himself off because i fell asleep! how embrassing :eek:

lads and gals help me!!
any advice will b most useful :confused:

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Reply 1

aleathiel

you fell asleep? what did he say to you? if he was still there when you woke up?

Reply 2

Anemos

Anonymous

lads and gals help me!!
any advice will b most useful :confused:

Fell asleep? Explain would probably be the best option or try again...

Reply 3

claire21

well this morning when he got up he had the perfect op to tell me get lost but he snuggled up to me n we fell asleep together (in his arms)

Reply 4

ladyportacabin

Let him down? It's not like you OWE him an orgasm. You both like each other, you had a few drinks, it was your first fumble... It's going to be understandably awkward. Just try it again but this time when sober and under less pressure.

Reply 5

mortderire

so much for anon

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

i know!!
i just hate the whole tension!! hes a gud mate so lets hope i ant ***ed that up?
thanx 4 every1s advice x

Reply 7

nic88

i dont think you let him down. i dont think he felt he had been let down if he snuggled in the morning. theres not a lot you can do with this but i suppose you could either appologise and say you acted wrong. or you could give up but i dont think you or he would want this!

good luck with this

Reply 8

Phonicsdude

claire21

well this morning when he got up he had the perfect op to tell me get lost but he snuggled up to me n we fell asleep together (in his arms)

you just gave yourself away.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

thing is also i like his mate and the guy in question knows this! but he also likes my mate thing is she dont like him!
i like the guy in question so shud how i play it from now???

Reply 10

aleathiel

just meet up with him again in normal circumstances, and see how it goes from there

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

sooo normal??
mmm ive completely forgot wot that is with us now!
we are part of a group and we all became closer after i split up with my ex who were my exs mates!! cus they stuck up 4 me n beleieved my ex was in the the wrong n i was in the right!!
what do i do next??

Reply 12

sablacklock88

Im completely lost...

Reply 13

aleathiel

well have you talked to him about what happened? has there been any contact between the two of you since then

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

no im tempted to txt him and say "i enjoyed last nite hope u did" kinda thing!!
wot u think??
i just feel soo confused because i dont know where i stand with him now!
any advice will b great!

Reply 15

aleathiel

ooh no not the text
hmm ask him how he is maybe and if he wants to meet up at such and such a place to hang out? but not that as he might take it wrong if you know what I mean

Reply 16

sheryl06

I don't understand how you could fall asleep doing that?!

Reply 17

Anonymous #1

yeh thanx! ill ask him if he fancys going 4 a drink next wkend then? dont want sound desperate though!! or wot u suggest?
should i txt him 2nite or leave it till tomoz?
i do appricate this, thanx