Does anybody else feel like theyre never gonna lose their virginity?

Hi, I just turned 19 yr old guy and im worried that im never gonna lose my virginity. All my friends who are younger than me have had many partners. I was with my first gf for 4 months but we never did anything sexually. Now that we broke up, im worried im never gonna lose it.

Does anybody else feel like theyre never gonna lose their virginity?

Reply 1

Sazarina88

11

Many people your age have lost their virginity, many people haven't.

Honestly, stop worrying about when you're going to lose it - it really isn't that big of an issue IMO.

Sarah xx

Reply 2

sarahb

dont wory! youl find the right girl and loose it when its right! dont rush it! and 19 isnt that young at all, youve got plenty of time!

Reply 3

dh00001

16

whats the big deal. nothing changes when you do loose it, you dont suddenly get invited to an exclusive part of the world............ :p:

itl happen sooner or later just dont jump into things

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

I also feel that as I get older, its going to get harder and harder as grow older. Im going to uni next month and im wondering is it easier to get laid there than in high school? :confused:

Reply 5

sarahb

dont 'try' to loose your virginity... why dont you just wait until the time is right??

Reply 6

Helenia

20

Anonymous

I also feel that as I get older, its going to get harder and harder as grow older. Im going to uni next month and im wondering is it easier to get laid there than in high school? :confused:

Not if you call it "getting laid," no. Seriously though, just have a look through a few pages on here and you'll see it's nothing out of the ordinary. Try not to appear desperate just to get rid of your virginity though - not attractive.

Reply 7

lazza

15

Anonymous

as I get older, its going to get harder and harder

only with viagra dear

darlings it's really not all it's cracked up to be. it's not like in the porn films. it won't be amazing everytime and you're not suddenly a sex god first time round. no one looks at you and thinks "VIRGIN", unless you choose to tell them all. maybe you should watch hollyoaks and follow the dom storyline

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

OP

sarahb

dont 'try' to loose your virginity... why dont you just wait until the time is right??

I really really want to get it over with as soon as possible. Im a guy with poor social skills and dont believe im very experienced either when it comes to these things. Also I am a guy, not a girl, which means its harder.

Reply 9

alfieatthelse

yes haha you will be like dom.. although im not a virign i don't know what i'm on about..ive been going through a rut recently! apparently you are meant to just stop looking - but how does one do that? (without subconciously knowing)

Reply 10

Anonymous #2

If you REALLY wanna get it over and done with, go to town on a saturday night and start trying to chat up any of the legion of 30something ladies with desperation in their eyes. Poor social skills wont matter - theyll eat you alive whether you like it or not.

Reply 11

Helenia

20

Anonymous

I really really want to get it over with as soon as possible. Im a guy with poor social skills and dont believe im very experienced either when it comes to these things. Also I am a guy, not a girl, which means its harder.

If you present yourself like that, you'll find it much much harder than if you just act normal, go out and meet people as you would normally and then take it further if the opportunity presents itself.

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

Anonymous

If you REALLY wanna get it over and done with, go to town on a saturday night and start trying to chat up any of the legion of 30something ladies with desperation in their eyes. Poor social skills wont matter - theyll eat you alive whether you like it or not.

Yea, hopefully things will change when I go to university in england. I have lived in a country where I dont speak the language for 5 years, which is really bad. There is only a limited amount of people my age who speak english here, so it makes it hard for me to meet women.

Reply 13

Anonymous #1

OP

Helenia

If you present yourself like that, you'll find it much much harder than if you just act normal, go out and meet people as you would normally and then take it further if the opportunity presents itself.

cheers. thanks for the advice.

Reply 14

Anonymous #3

10% of men die virgins.

Reply 15

sarahb

Anonymous

I really really want to get it over with as soon as possible. Im a guy with poor social skills and dont believe im very experienced either when it comes to these things. Also I am a guy, not a girl, which means its harder.

dont have that attitude! some people think its not all its cracked up to be, but with the right person, its special. dont be afraid or scared about it, the girl your with wil understand and help u if shes not a virgin herself. seriously, youl be fine!! just chil out and wait! be patient dude :smile:

Reply 16

sarahb

Anonymous

10% of men die virgins.

thats realy what he needs to hear :rolleyes:

Reply 17

hugatree

11

Pff, I'm 20. I'd only have sex with a bf (didn't get a chance to the last time cos it was long-distance).

Reply 18

Anonymous #1

OP

sarahb

thats realy what he needs to hear :rolleyes:

seriously...

Reply 19

sarahb

Anonymous

seriously...

i very much doubt its that high at all... you also gota take into consideration monks, mormans, and others who wish to stay celibate. also take into consideration children who die.

if your sooo botherd about it, go with a prostitute!! but i realy realy realy wouldnt recomend it! its realy not a big issue, espec at the age of 19!!

Does anybody else feel like theyre never gonna lose their virginity?

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