Argh! I'm so fustrated!!!

talk to him

problem 1
so your mum would not let you get a jacket boo hoo. go back to tesco and buy the jacket when she is not there or don't problem solved.

problem 2
its not his duty to tell you he likes you. if you like him tell him or ask him out for a drink.

Step back and think these are not big problems at all

Edit: I agree with Mc hamster is pretty childish

Gentle reminder: fustrated is spelt frustrated. You remind me of Nikki from BB.

Oh~Cheers!^o)

I'm not childish at all! I'm very mature and independent!! Maybe i express my problem in a childish way?! The Jacket thing was just an example cus it happened this morning. I basically have to get permision if i want to buy anything!!!U still think i'm being childish? I'm not allow to go out with friends, never out drinking before: i'm only allow to go 4 movies DURING THE DAY occationally! I'm not going to Uni this Sept, but next cus i'm taking a year out and this i smy mum's idea too!

1: Tie your mother up, lock her in the basement and demand that she lets you buy the jacket.

2: Tie the guy up, lock him in the basement and demand that he says he has feelings for you.

Sorted.

yet your mom holds you bank card for you. You cant go to movies, or out for a drink and you call yourself independant
For someone whos mature and independant you do sound like mommys little girl,why not get your own place until you move to uni? If your not there she cant control you

tell your mum to stop butting in. Its your life. go out, make friends and have fun. your mum seems like she's scared of you making mistakes, its your job to learn from making mistakes and not her job to stop you making them. hope that makes sense

Maybe the guy is shy? I think the best course of action for you is to get him in a one on one situation and talk for a while. In this way you'll both loosen up and feel comfortable in each other's company, so he'll be far more likely to, say, ask you on a date for example. If not, by then you might feel brave enough to ask him yourself.

Firstly, you are going to university soon, right? Therefore, you should have a long talk to your parents, be mature and act responsible, tell them, that you feel - as you work that you can buy whatever you desire. You earn your money, therefore you should be able to spend it. I know your mum is concerned about university, but 8 pounds never broke the bank.

Don't start being bratty about it though, it only conveys that you are not mature enough to handle your own finances. (This is apt, seeing as I usually rebel on everything about buying things - if I want something I get it out of my own money; I worked - why should I not? Similarly with you). But, really *this* is not a big deal, the real deal is the fact you still feel obliged, or are still treated as a child. This is why you need to sit down and maturely talk about how you feel repressed by your parents and that if you want to buy something, you feel you should be able to.

Yeah, on Sunday, we were working together. I went for the Dinner break later than the others and so did he (what a co-incidence), however when we were in the staff rest room there were some people in there so we sat separately. Later on My manager came in and said "everyone apart from "that guy" has to go and clean the tables" (i work in a hotel as waitress) and he spoke for me , he went "oh, but Speedstacker just came down at the same time as i do so she should be allowed to stay." so i manage to have my dinner break. We did talk for a while before that manager came in and get him to carry the tables (again!). I felt more comfortable with him at that time and i'm sure he did too.