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HELP!!! Im being blackmailed!!
Ok I have always thought that blackmail was beyond anyone I knew however I found out this week that it wasn't!! My group of friends and me went on a night out to some student night drink all you want for £10! Out of the group of friends there my ex g/f was there but not my current! The friends that are there wouldnt care what I did behind my g/f's back although I have never done anything like that! Well anyway to cut the story short....My ex got me very drunk and took mer back to my place and we copulated for the best part of 45 minutes then she left again! I was completely oblivious to this until the next day i found a not on my video camera saying 'watch me', well you can probably all guess what had been videoed from my desk on my camers.....me and my ex!! At the end of the video she said "....thanks forgot how good it was to be with you...."
Either way i wiped the vid in case my current g/f saw and then called my ex to have a bit of a go except all i got was i will be right over! She told me to look at the box of 5 CD-R's I have in my draw and well there were only 3 left! As for the missing 2 my ex has them one of which she showed me to prove that the vid was on there!! Now if you met my ex you would think 'gee does she know how to turn a computer on?' well yes she does and a whole lot more as i have found to my horror!!! Basically she is now blackmailing me to come and see her when she pleases and over the last week that has resulted in having sex several times!!!
What the hell do i do!? I have a feeling soon it will be dump your g/f and come back to me or just a simple dump her as she is talking about how good we could be giving it a 2nd go!!! HELP!!!!
PS sorry it was a bit long!
Either way i wiped the vid in case my current g/f saw and then called my ex to have a bit of a go except all i got was i will be right over! She told me to look at the box of 5 CD-R's I have in my draw and well there were only 3 left! As for the missing 2 my ex has them one of which she showed me to prove that the vid was on there!! Now if you met my ex you would think 'gee does she know how to turn a computer on?' well yes she does and a whole lot more as i have found to my horror!!! Basically she is now blackmailing me to come and see her when she pleases and over the last week that has resulted in having sex several times!!!
What the hell do i do!? I have a feeling soon it will be dump your g/f and come back to me or just a simple dump her as she is talking about how good we could be giving it a 2nd go!!! HELP!!!!
PS sorry it was a bit long!
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Reply 1
why did you let her get you drunk? it seems she is not over you for a start
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Ok I have always thought that blackmail was beyond anyone I knew however I found out this week that it wasn't!! My group of friends and me went on a night out to some student night drink all you want for £10! Out of the group of friends there my ex g/f was there but not my current! The friends that are there wouldnt care what I did behind my g/f's back although I have never done anything like that! Well anyway to cut the story short....My ex got me very drunk and took mer back to my place and we copulated for the best part of 45 minutes then she left again! I was completely oblivious to this until the next day i found a not on my video camera saying 'watch me', well you can probably all guess what had been videoed from my desk on my camers.....me and my ex!! At the end of the video she said "....thanks forgot how good it was to be with you...."
Either way i wiped the vid in case my current g/f saw and then called my ex to have a bit of a go except all i got was i will be right over! She told me to look at the box of 5 CD-R's I have in my draw and well there were only 3 left! As for the missing 2 my ex has them one of which she showed me to prove that the vid was on there!! Now if you met my ex you would think 'gee does she know how to turn a computer on?' well yes she does and a whole lot more as i have found to my horror!!! Basically she is now blackmailing me to come and see her when she pleases and over the last week that has resulted in having sex several times!!!
What the hell do i do!? I have a feeling soon it will be dump your g/f and come back to me or just a simple dump her as she is talking about how good we could be giving it a 2nd go!!! HELP!!!!
PS sorry it was a bit long!
Either way i wiped the vid in case my current g/f saw and then called my ex to have a bit of a go except all i got was i will be right over! She told me to look at the box of 5 CD-R's I have in my draw and well there were only 3 left! As for the missing 2 my ex has them one of which she showed me to prove that the vid was on there!! Now if you met my ex you would think 'gee does she know how to turn a computer on?' well yes she does and a whole lot more as i have found to my horror!!! Basically she is now blackmailing me to come and see her when she pleases and over the last week that has resulted in having sex several times!!!
What the hell do i do!? I have a feeling soon it will be dump your g/f and come back to me or just a simple dump her as she is talking about how good we could be giving it a 2nd go!!! HELP!!!!
PS sorry it was a bit long!
Urgh, I can't believe you went back and had more sex with her. I would have said be honest with your girlfriend and tell her about your drunken mistake and that way your ex's blackmail will have no weight, but you've already ruined that plan. Which is a shame because she might have forgiven you. Too late though, you need to tell your girlfriend, but don't expect her to forgive you. I don't think it'd matter to you anyway, you clearly don't care about her.
'She's forcing me to have sex with her'
Read that and realise how dumb it is. Obviously you want to as well, so you need to stop messing your girlfriend around.
I'm not sure whether you need telling (wouldn't surprise me!), but break it to her gently.
Reply 4
Cant believe that, are you that stupid? Sorry to be blunt, first off to not know what you were doing when drunk you would of had to be bladerred and then the 'sex' wouldnt be that great. And then to actually be stpid enough to let go back and have sex with her? Mate to be honest your gf aint going to understand and to be honest i dont blame her 1 bit. For me you brought this on yourself tell your girlfriend get dumped and move on. I usually wouldnt be blunt but i just cant believe that lol
Is this rape really horrible or something? Otherwise just roll with it.
Also you are clearly not a smart cookie because if you were then you would have kept the tape and threatened to send it to her grandma or something if she showed your girl the copies she had. Bit late for that now though.
Also you are clearly not a smart cookie because if you were then you would have kept the tape and threatened to send it to her grandma or something if she showed your girl the copies she had. Bit late for that now though.
Reply 6
can;t see how its blackmail when he went off and did it again with her, guess them two are really suited to each other, i feel sorry for his girlfriend.
I don't condone cheating at all but cut your losses with the ex. If your current gf finds the video say it was in the past. You don't love your gf to cheat on her. Using the word copulate makes you seem at first the victim when its your poor gf who is the victim. Guys like you give blokes a bad name.
Reply 8
Carl1982
can;t see how its blackmail when he went off and did it again with her, guess them two are really suited to each other, i feel sorry for his girlfriend.
Couldnt agree more with that
I doubt you can truly love your current girlfriend if all it takes for you to have sex with your ex is a few drinks. It can't have been too many drinks or you wouldn't have been capable of having sex.
As for your ex, if she's really videotaped you then she's decietful and calculating and you're better off out of it. For your current girlfriend you need to tell her the truth and if she dumps you, then to be honest I can't exactly blame her, you'd deserve it. You need to tell her as a) you'd be honest in your relationship with her an b) your ex wouldn't have any hold over you.
That is of course if this thread it the truth.
As for your ex, if she's really videotaped you then she's decietful and calculating and you're better off out of it. For your current girlfriend you need to tell her the truth and if she dumps you, then to be honest I can't exactly blame her, you'd deserve it. You need to tell her as a) you'd be honest in your relationship with her an b) your ex wouldn't have any hold over you.
That is of course if this thread it the truth.
Reply 11
Gem
I doubt you can truly love your current girlfriend if all it takes for you to have sex with your ex is a few drinks. It can't have been too many drinks or you wouldn't have been capable of having sex.
As for your ex, if she's really videotaped you then she's decietful and calculating and you're better off out of it. For your current girlfriend you need to tell her the truth and if she dumps you, then to be honest I can't exactly blame her, you'd deserve it. You need to tell her as a) you'd be honest in your relationship with her an b) your ex wouldn't have any hold over you.
That is of course if this thread it the truth.
As for your ex, if she's really videotaped you then she's decietful and calculating and you're better off out of it. For your current girlfriend you need to tell her the truth and if she dumps you, then to be honest I can't exactly blame her, you'd deserve it. You need to tell her as a) you'd be honest in your relationship with her an b) your ex wouldn't have any hold over you.
That is of course if this thread it the truth.
Does make you wonder if there's any truth in this thread or something started this for a laugh, but there's no way of telling unfortunatly
Reply 12
bunthulhu
Snap, that's exactly what I was thinking.
*Tries to regain her faith in men...*
*Tries to regain her faith in men...*
Please dont take this as a representation of Males lol
Reply 13
quite the dilemma, and theres no easy way out, but do you really want one? lol
Reply 14
go to her house - get the cdr's, wipe her computer hard drive, record her and threaten to release if she contacts u again! sorted !
Reply 16
I get the feeling this thread is not for real, that fact that this was included in the thread:
"....thanks forgot how good it was to be with you...."
Which is totally irrelevant makes me think this was started by a bored person
"....thanks forgot how good it was to be with you...."
Which is totally irrelevant makes me think this was started by a bored person
Reply 18
Cano234
I get the feeling this thread is not for real, that fact that this was included in the thread:
"....thanks forgot how good it was to be with you...."
Which is totally irrelevant makes me think this was started by a bored person
"....thanks forgot how good it was to be with you...."
Which is totally irrelevant makes me think this was started by a bored person
cheers for the rep
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