Am I gay?

I'm in a really good relationship with my girlfriend at the moment but I find myself fantasising about being with a guy. I don't fancy men at all, but for some reason I seem to want to try it out. There's no doubt that I find women extremely attractive, and men not at all, so i'm just a bit confused. Anybody else in the same/similar situation?

Bi-curious?

No. You're not gay.

*waits for about 15 "bisexual" teenage girl to start harping on about how you should "NEVER purt yourself in a 'box'"

Reply 3

Sithius

16

You are gay.

Probably.

You must be 16/17?

Why would you go anon to ask his age? Scared he's gonna hit on ya?

Reply 6

TKR

15

there goes the anonymity.

poll?

rofl

Poor fellow.

Anonymous

I'm in a really good relationship with my girlfriend at the moment but I find myself fantasising about being with a guy. I don't fancy men at all, but for some reason I seem to want to try it out. There's no doubt that I find women extremely attractive, and men not at all, so i'm just a bit confused. Anybody else in the same/similar situation?

Babe, fantasies are just that. They become realities when you make a choice to make them real. Your choice. Nothing wrong with it, but don't hurt people because you want to try something out. Watch Sinchronicity on BBC2 at 10pm Sundays - similar situations.

if it helps, I am a bird and I have a lovely boyf, but fancy birds every now and then. I have no desire to do it, but like to think about it. No biggie.

Reply 10

Chumbaniya

17

Anonymous

I'm in a really good relationship with my girlfriend at the moment but I find myself fantasising about being with a guy. I don't fancy men at all, but for some reason I seem to want to try it out. There's no doubt that I find women extremely attractive, and men not at all, so i'm just a bit confused. Anybody else in the same/similar situation?

You answer your own question by saying you find women attractive but not men. Why do do many people who are curious about what other sexual experiences would be like need to automatically worry about whether they're gay or not?

Reply 11

Louise88

I know where you are coming from. Im a girl and im in a great relationship with my boyfriend, im very happy with him but I do think about being with another girl quite a lot. I don't really fancy women as such but I do find some women very, very attractive. I am bi-curious though, chances are you could be too. It's nothing to worry about, just because you have a fantasy about being with another man doesn't instantly make you gay.

Reply 12

Anonymous #3

I've only ever been with guys, kissed girls as dares when I was 13-14, but nothing else. Yet I find myself more turned on by pictures of naked girls than by my boyfriend, or any other guy before him. I find myself looking at the figure of women in the street, yet if a 'hot' guy walked past I wouldn't look twice....

Reply 13

scruffs

1

Quick quiz:

1: Food- Sausage or donut?

2: What do you think of at the mention of these names- Elton John, Jean-Paul Gautier, Ian McKellan?

3: When away from home, how many times a day do you speak to your mother?

4: Tunnel or Funnel?

Now think about your answers and use your gaydar...

erm what

Anonymous

erm what

its meant to be some sort of gay test :rolleyes:

Reply 16

Anonymous #3

Well, being female it didn't work for me lol

Reply 17

gyrase

3

Anonymous

I'm in a really good relationship with my girlfriend at the moment but I find myself fantasising about being with a guy. I don't fancy men at all, but for some reason I seem to want to try it out. There's no doubt that I find women extremely attractive, and men not at all, so i'm just a bit confused. Anybody else in the same/similar situation?

you're bare gay.

Reply 18

Zoecb

11

It's perfectly normal for straight people to have same-sex fantasies. You might be as straight as a ruler. You might not be, but it doesn't really matter either way.

Reply 19

Jonatan

13

TKR

No. You're not gay.

*waits for about 15 "bisexual" teenage girl to start harping on about how you should "NEVER purt yourself in a 'box'"

Personally I like sitting in my little bisexual box, but then I'm neither a teenager nor a girl. But yea, you're definately not homosexual, and it doesn't quite sound as if you're bi either as you say you don't fancy guys. But then, what do I know. Just take things as they come. I was through a similar situation, but then I do fancy guys and considder myself bisexual. Don't worry too much about it, you'll figure it out eventually.

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