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There's this guy who would not stop pestering me to go and see him or to go out for a drink with him, so in the end I gave in and went out with him. I kind of felt like I had nothing to lose.

He lost one of his eyes a while ago in some sort of fight, so he only has one eye. This didn't really bother me at all, there was just nothing there for me and I know he's interested in me like romantically.

Anyways I got a message from him telling me that I am out of order not going out with him because he only has 1 eye, I messaged him back saying that even if he had 2 eyes it would never happen and to leave me alone (which I suppose sounded kind of rude).

I then saw his Sister and she tried to have a go at me about it, saying that she was going to smash my face in if I ever speak about her Brother like that again as it's not his fault he only has 1 eye.

Am I missing something here? it has nothing to do with his eye.

I feel like everyone's going to think I'm a ***** now because he's saying that basically because he's disabled I wont go out with him...
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That's harassment and threats. Report to police if continues

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Tell him he needs to see the other side of things, then you can patch things up...

Seriously, you've obviously done nothing wrong, just clearly state to anyone who brings it up it wasn't because of his eye, you just don't see him that way. I don't see how anyone could not accept that, he seems to be operating with the premise any girl would be want to go out with him if he had two eyes, which is ridiculous.
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Which you suppose sounded kind of rude? ****!!
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There's this guy who would not stop pestering me to go and see him or to go out for a drink with him, so in the end I gave in and went out with him. I kind of felt like I had nothing to lose.

He lost one of his eyes a while ago in some sort of fight, so he only has one eye. This didn't really bother me at all, there was just nothing there for me and I know he's interested in me like romantically.

Anyways I got a message from him telling me that I am out of order not going out with him because he only has 1 eye, I messaged him back saying that even if he had 2 eyes it would never happen and to leave me alone (which I suppose sounded kind of rude).

I then saw his Sister and she tried to have a go at me about it, saying that she was going to smash my face in if I ever speak about her Brother like that again as it's not his fault he only has 1 eye.

Am I missing something here? it has nothing to do with his eye.

I feel like everyone's going to think I'm a ***** now because he's saying that basically because he's disabled I wont go out with him...
lol, how do u end up with insecure guys like that?


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This is pretty funny, the guy gets rejected and the only thing he thinks let him down was the fact he had only 1 eye. Doesn't he have a fake one in? Or at least an eye patch?
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(Original post by Mankytoes)
Tell him he needs to see the other side of things, then you can patch things up...

Seriously, you've obviously done nothing wrong, just clearly state to anyone who brings it up it wasn't because of his eye, you just don't see him that way. I don't see how anyone could not accept that, he seems to be operating with the premise any girl would be want to go out with him if he had two eyes, which is ridiculous.
Was that a pun? lol

You're right, thank you.

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lol, how do u end up with insecure guys like that?


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I have no idea, it's strange because he is actually quite attractive but this whole nothing ever goes right for me because I only have 1 eye is really off putting.
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This is pretty funny, the guy gets rejected and the only thing he thinks let him down was the fact he had only 1 eye. Doesn't he have a fake one in? Or at least an eye patch?
Yeah he has a fake one.
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Yeah he has a fake one.
He really should of gotten an eye patch, so he can be a pirate.
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Was that a pun? lol

You're right, thank you.

I have no idea, it's strange because he is actually quite attractive but this whole nothing ever goes right for me because I only have 1 eye is really off putting.
There are actually two puns if you look closely...

People can get like that about all sorts of things- "if it wasn't for this thing I can't control, all my problems would be solved".
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Tell him he needs to see the other side of things, then you can patch things up...

Seriously, you've obviously done nothing wrong, just clearly state to anyone who brings it up it wasn't because of his eye, you just don't see him that way. I don't see how anyone could not accept that, he seems to be operating with the premise any girl would be want to go out with him if he had two eyes, which is ridiculous.
Lol.
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First you **** off my brother for being visually impaired and then you **** him off on the internet? Are you for real b****? Do you want me to tell these people what you REALLY said about my brother? Don't try to play the victim here...
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First you **** off my brother for being visually impaired and then you **** him off on the internet? Are you for real b****? Do you want me to tell these people what you REALLY said about my brother? Don't try to play the victim here...
Yes please do tell TSR what I said, I need a laugh.
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He only has an eye for you.

It was love at first partial sight.

That is all.
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Which you suppose sounded kind of rude? ****!!
LOL that was my favourite part.


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LOL that was my favourite part.


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I think he did take it as me being rude as I think he expected me to be like ''of course it's not because you only have 1 eye''. I was a bit blunt, so I can see why someone would think that's rude.
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Yeah, you were really rude and unkind to him, be nice about rejection at least. You could have said 'no, it's not about that, I just really don't see you that way' or something, but your aggressive response obviously aggravated things and saying 'even if you had 2 eyes I wouldnt date you' doesn't really make it clear the eyes thing doesn't bother you.
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Symptom of our society letting PC go mad.

This is clear blackmail and harassment , eye , eye, eye !
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There's this guy who would not stop pestering me to go and see him or to go out for a drink with him, so in the end I gave in and went out with him. I kind of felt like I had nothing to lose.

He lost one of his eyes a while ago in some sort of fight, so he only has one eye. This didn't really bother me at all, there was just nothing there for me and I know he's interested in me like romantically.

Anyways I got a message from him telling me that I am out of order not going out with him because he only has 1 eye, I messaged him back saying that even if he had 2 eyes it would never happen and to leave me alone (which I suppose sounded kind of rude).

I then saw his Sister and she tried to have a go at me about it, saying that she was going to smash my face in if I ever speak about her Brother like that again as it's not his fault he only has 1 eye.

Am I missing something here? it has nothing to do with his eye.

I feel like everyone's going to think I'm a ***** now because he's saying that basically because he's disabled I wont go out with him...
Hehe, I'm sorry that part just made me laugh. Yes I know I'm a horrendous human. But seriously, that's bullying and emotional blackmail, he might be trying to make you feel guilty. Report it.
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Was that a pun? lol
There were two puns there, actually.
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