The Student Room Group

I have **** friends

WARNING: Just a ranting post!

Throughout this holiday, I've been organising loads of trips along with my best friend. The most annoying part is everyone gave me a thumbs up for most of the trip and cancel on us last minute. When I say last minute is like 1 hour before the actual meeting time or just didn't call at all. I'm so pissed off! If it's one or two times, I'd think there might be some kind of emergency. but now, she have done that all the time.

My last attempt to organise a trip was the weekend. I suggested to play badminton. And called everyone to comfirm it's ok. So, I booked the court and spent £9.50 for the booking. And today I got a text from this friend saying she has to work at 6.30 (I'm guessing she's teaching, but she could have arranged another time since I comfirmed with her first). For Christ sake, she said she would be free thursday 5pm, and I even got her to check her diary. And now she said she can't make it.

I don't understand why people can't stand by the things they have commited themselves to. ARGH!

Is this just happening to me? If so, I seriously have to look at myself at the mirror and see what is wrong with myself!

Reply 1

no people do it to me too. ive gave up and think **** them, do something with other friends and wait for them to try and arrange something

Reply 2

Things always come up in the holidays - even with a surplus of time, the one day that you've put aside will be interrupted, either by your own virtue or your friend's. Don't be mad at them, just find someone else - some friendly company is probably better than none!

Reply 3

the worst thing is they don't suggest anything to do.

Reply 4

Maybe your friends have no money. I mean, £9.50 for a game of Badminton?
Whats the court made of - gold leaf or something!?!

Reply 5

£9.50 for a court. If we share the price it would be £2 each.

and she's god damn rich. she earns £300 a month. £2 won't be a lot out of her bank account.

Reply 6

Friends suck. Get new ones!