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overly protective over bros??

I got younger broz, and im always worrying about what happens to them. my bro just turned 13 and out of a sudden hes goin out to movies, and i worry cuz i know where he goes to watch movies is the worse place ever, cuz i've been there and see what kinna stupidness happens. juss a couple weeks ago him n his friend went to his school field to play soccer, and they seen older guys playin there so my bro asked if they could play....n they started pushin him n his friend around. i got soooooo pisssssssssssed when he came home cryin.....i mean these guys were like 18 pickin on a 13 yr old i wanted to go there n knock them all out. another thing is..when his gf calls and askes for him i tell her hes not home, when he is....i should lay off right?? but hes 13 wat does he need a gf 4??

anyways it seems like i worry more then my parents do, i drive myself crazy... i always think somethin bad is gunna happen to them and/or they might hurt................................is this normal or am i crazy?
Reply 1
Well, one thing is certain, if you continue he won't grow up becoming a man.
Reply 2
You have no right to stop him having a girlfriend and no right to lie just to break them up. I agree with you, at 13, he should not be dating. However, it's not up to you. You could break them up all you like but unless he agrees with you, he'll just get another girl and next time, not let you know about it.

Stop being over protective and just let him grow up on his own. Support him, love him and comfort him - but relax. Let him live his life.

Btw, please please proof-read your post...? I mean, a few typos, fine - but... your spelling even in text-type is horrendous :redface: sorry.