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Signs of a girl fancying you.
Hi!
What would people consider as signs of a girl liking you or fancying you? I mean girls that you know giving signs or even ones you don't know that just come up to you and say something or ask for a favour.
The other day these two girls (who were quite pretty) came up to me and asked to buy a cig for them, so I did. Afterwards, I went away. They were coming up to me I think but I was with my parents so don't think they could.
Also, at college when I sit in the classroom, canteen wherever, this girl keeps staring at me. I can't be sure because I look somewhere else but I look at her from the corner of my eye in a spying sort of way and the girl sure does stare a lot! She's very friendly to me and a bit shy towards me too. Strange but VERY cute girl.
Also, some quick advice. What's the best way to approach a girl? Say for example, you're at a cafe, you buy a drink and you spot a girl by herself, and doesn't seem as if she's with anyone. Would you go up to her? If so, how? Or another example, you're sitting at a bench and a girl just comes up and sits next to you. How would you talk to her etc? Need some ips on this kind of stuff, don't want to be single anymore, lol.
Thanks!
What would people consider as signs of a girl liking you or fancying you? I mean girls that you know giving signs or even ones you don't know that just come up to you and say something or ask for a favour.
The other day these two girls (who were quite pretty) came up to me and asked to buy a cig for them, so I did. Afterwards, I went away. They were coming up to me I think but I was with my parents so don't think they could.
Also, at college when I sit in the classroom, canteen wherever, this girl keeps staring at me. I can't be sure because I look somewhere else but I look at her from the corner of my eye in a spying sort of way and the girl sure does stare a lot! She's very friendly to me and a bit shy towards me too. Strange but VERY cute girl.
Also, some quick advice. What's the best way to approach a girl? Say for example, you're at a cafe, you buy a drink and you spot a girl by herself, and doesn't seem as if she's with anyone. Would you go up to her? If so, how? Or another example, you're sitting at a bench and a girl just comes up and sits next to you. How would you talk to her etc? Need some ips on this kind of stuff, don't want to be single anymore, lol.
Thanks!
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ahh the standard shes on her own easy pickings, if you want to do that then just go up there introduce yourself and shake her hand pyshical contaact is important (but not too much obviously dont be too intimate) and just talk. Yes i watched seduction school lmao
As for the very cut girl in college it def sounds like she's into you, just ask her to go get coffee
As for the very cut girl in college it def sounds like she's into you, just ask her to go get coffee
The other day these two girls (who were quite pretty) came up to me and asked to buy a cig for them, so I did. Afterwards, I went away. They were coming up to me I think but I was with my parents so don't think they could.
Probably just wanted you to buy them another cig...
TheThirdMan
Probably just wanted you to buy them another cig...
Disappointing.
TheThirdMan
Probably just wanted you to buy them another cig...
I agree with this!
Also, regarding the girl in the canteen, I wouldn't get your hopes up - she could be looking anywhere! Is she in your classes? Perhaps try and talk to her there, tell her you're stuck or something and could do with some help?
As for approaching girls in general, just be yourself! Most of us are not monsters - although I don't think the best place to meet a girl is plonking yourself down on a bench next to her. Are you involved in any clubs or anything like that? It might be better to try and talk to girls there. Or, if you're old enough, do you go out and socialise?
Just a few suggestions,
Sarah xx
Well approach her ASAP. Dont think about it. You'll have time to convince yourself it's not the right thing. It is the right thing.
Go up to her, shake her hand and tell her off for staring at you ("Im not a piece of meat, I have real feelings. I hate it when girls always do this..."). Then she will provide more than enough material for you to riff on.
Enjoy!
Go up to her, shake her hand and tell her off for staring at you ("Im not a piece of meat, I have real feelings. I hate it when girls always do this..."). Then she will provide more than enough material for you to riff on.
Enjoy!
Anonymous
Hi!
What would people consider as signs of a girl liking you or fancying you?
What would people consider as signs of a girl liking you or fancying you?
Well as a girl i think its basically flirting with you, maybe noticing them looking at you and just generally talking to you lots. Its pretty obvious when a guy likes a girl but girls are a lot better at hiding it.
Phonicsdude
Well approach her ASAP. Dont think about it. You'll have time to convince yourself it's not the right thing. It is the right thing.
Go up to her, shake her hand and tell her off for staring at you ("Im not a piece of meat, I have real feelings. I hate it when girls always do this..."). Then she will provide more than enough material for you to riff on.
Enjoy!
Go up to her, shake her hand and tell her off for staring at you ("Im not a piece of meat, I have real feelings. I hate it when girls always do this..."). Then she will provide more than enough material for you to riff on.
Enjoy!
And, who knows? if you're really lucky, she might even let you fondle her g-string.
Telling you to stop doing something with a big grin on her face.
Hitting you.
Laughing a lot with you.
Just feel the vibe. Cos I didnt really answer the question first time around.
p.s. I've yet to meet a girl with a g-string with conversing with for more than 3 minutes.
Hitting you.
Laughing a lot with you.
Just feel the vibe. Cos I didnt really answer the question first time around.
p.s. I've yet to meet a girl with a g-string with conversing with for more than 3 minutes.
A) she flirts with you B) she wants to hang out with you more C) she takes alot of sneaky looks at you especially when your not looking
Phonicsdude
Telling you to stop doing something with a big grin on her face.
Hitting you.
Laughing a lot with you.
Just feel the vibe. Cos I didnt really answer the question first time around.
p.s. I've yet to meet a girl with a g-string with conversing with for more than 3 minutes.
Hitting you.
Laughing a lot with you.
Just feel the vibe. Cos I didnt really answer the question first time around.
p.s. I've yet to meet a girl with a g-string with conversing with for more than 3 minutes.
Indeed; I rather doubt that I could withstand having my syntax incessantly mocked and derided for the better part of three minutes, either.
There are many Indicators of Interest, keep an eye out. Such things involve holding eye contact, playful touching, asking you questions about yourself (but obviously you have to guage whether she's asking out of politeness, or if she's genuinely interested), body language. One IOI is sometimes a girl will give you "proximity" which means to stand or sit near you, when she could sit in many other places in the room. Consciously or subconsciously, she wants you to talk to her!
The best approach is quite simply a friendly and confident one. Watch your body language (no hands in pockets, keep good posture, don't walk over to her too fast, don't fidget whilst talking) and you can just be friendly, say 'Hi', introduce yourself and just be friendly and funny. Just remember, one step at a time - you're not going over there to pull her - you're just going over there to have a positive interaction.
Anonymous
Also, some quick advice. What's the best way to approach a girl? Say for example, you're at a cafe, you buy a drink and you spot a girl by herself, and doesn't seem as if she's with anyone. Would you go up to her? If so, how? Or another example, you're sitting at a bench and a girl just comes up and sits next to you. How would you talk to her etc?
Also, some quick advice. What's the best way to approach a girl? Say for example, you're at a cafe, you buy a drink and you spot a girl by herself, and doesn't seem as if she's with anyone. Would you go up to her? If so, how? Or another example, you're sitting at a bench and a girl just comes up and sits next to you. How would you talk to her etc?
The best approach is quite simply a friendly and confident one. Watch your body language (no hands in pockets, keep good posture, don't walk over to her too fast, don't fidget whilst talking) and you can just be friendly, say 'Hi', introduce yourself and just be friendly and funny. Just remember, one step at a time - you're not going over there to pull her - you're just going over there to have a positive interaction.
Phonicsdude
Hitting you.
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That is so true! Girls really do hit guys when they like then, it's just an excuse to touch them I think! What with your great bodies and that...haha
Haha, sorry if I'm chuckling, I just find it sort of funny. How to this,how to that... If you think the girl is cute, just go up to her and talk to her.
You know, girls are so moody that they'll recommend different approachings/initiations everytime you ask. So, if we're gonna be moody about it, you might as well to. Don't you think?
For example, if on one day you wanna talk to her with an opening line like "I'm sorry, this is stupid. I don't even know you, but you keep popping into my mind so I thought I'd come and actually talk to you...", do it. Or if on another, you're very much in an indecisive mood, just be neutralish and say "hi, you up for talking?".
The only disturbing thing is that you guys all make it sound like you want to score a definite hook up. But how do you think you're gonna make best girl mates(with fit friends that you might end up getting on really well with)?
Final analysis (You must all think I'm bipolar):
Do what ever the hell you want, its your life.
You know, girls are so moody that they'll recommend different approachings/initiations everytime you ask. So, if we're gonna be moody about it, you might as well to. Don't you think?
For example, if on one day you wanna talk to her with an opening line like "I'm sorry, this is stupid. I don't even know you, but you keep popping into my mind so I thought I'd come and actually talk to you...", do it. Or if on another, you're very much in an indecisive mood, just be neutralish and say "hi, you up for talking?".
The only disturbing thing is that you guys all make it sound like you want to score a definite hook up. But how do you think you're gonna make best girl mates(with fit friends that you might end up getting on really well with)?
Final analysis (You must all think I'm bipolar):
Do what ever the hell you want, its your life.
Profesh
Indeed; I rather doubt that I could withstand having my syntax incessantly mocked and derided for the better part of three minutes, either.
Girls dont understand you lol omg
Anonymous
Hi!
What would people consider as signs of a girl liking you or fancying you? I mean girls that you know giving signs or even ones you don't know that just come up to you and say something or ask for a favour.
Thanks!
What would people consider as signs of a girl liking you or fancying you? I mean girls that you know giving signs or even ones you don't know that just come up to you and say something or ask for a favour.
Thanks!
Read this VERY carefully:
Spoiler
well..
if i like someone, i'd try and be nice to them, occasionally flirt with them, but harmlessly.
er i'd speak to them a lot, but it takes time for me to fancy someone. yeah there are tons of people i'll see and look at, and think wow, but then again they're just good lookers, nothing else lol. its unless i know them well enough i can say, yeah i think i fancy him.
er watch out for very touchy-feely girls, many girls who like guys hug them a lot, talk to them a lot on msn (eg start the convo off), erm ask to hang out a lot.. i dunno.
just remember, if you like a girl who asks you who do you like, do NOT say ''someone else'' - thats a great push off.
if i like someone, i'd try and be nice to them, occasionally flirt with them, but harmlessly.
er i'd speak to them a lot, but it takes time for me to fancy someone. yeah there are tons of people i'll see and look at, and think wow, but then again they're just good lookers, nothing else lol. its unless i know them well enough i can say, yeah i think i fancy him.
er watch out for very touchy-feely girls, many girls who like guys hug them a lot, talk to them a lot on msn (eg start the convo off), erm ask to hang out a lot.. i dunno.
just remember, if you like a girl who asks you who do you like, do NOT say ''someone else'' - thats a great push off.
Profesh
And, who knows? if you're really lucky, she might even let you fondle her g-string.
Boo! Hiss! Aren't jokes about guitars and g-strings a bit overdone?
Phonicsdude
Girls dont understand you lol omg
"Lol omg"? Why not add about ten exclamation marks, just to complete the effect?
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