A bit disappointed...

Me and this guy I like arranged to hang out one day, he knows I like him. We got on pretty well or so I thought but we haven't spoke since and it was a week ago now..this morning I went on msn and he went offline straight away, I didn't even get the chance to IM him not that I intended to but anyways, I checked on my sisters account and he was on. so he blocked me. my sister did ask him why he blocked him but he went offline and didn't answer which cowardly indeed. I am quite gutted because the only thing I can see is that he isn't interested in me, what other reasons would there be for this? he's also led me on...arranging to meet me, talking to me lots online and initiating convos before hang, he even said he liked me.... it's all a bit childish. i haven't sent him a text or email yet asking him why he's blocked me because I havent come to the desicion whether its the right thing to do. should I just ignore him now?

Reply 1

HeStoleMyCrayon

yup

Reply 2

Zafda

thats pretty harsh.
some people think that's a pretty acceptable way of acting but it isn't.
to be honest, you should perhaps save your love for someone worth it. i know it'll be hard to get over him but it may be your best bet, he sounds like a prick to me anyway.
i've had a similar incident but just as a friend, not anything more, but it still hurt, i suppose you just have to learn from it - eg never tell a guy you like them till its 100000000000% safe.

Reply 3

Jennybean

He sounds like a ****, you deserve better and do you really want to give him the satisfaction of knowing you care that he blocked you and is being such a prick? You still have your dignity, keep it that way!

Reply 4

SilverWings

Isn't even more childish to be all "OMG YOU BLOCKED ME!!!1111oneoneone"??

Ofcourse you're upset, but if the guy wants nothing to do with you he wants nothing to do with you and you should accept that. If he does he will text/ring/IM you and THEN maybe you can ask him about how he's been acting.

Reply 5

lala_land

I know what you mean, it's so confusing when a guy talks to you makes it clear he wants to see you then cancels last minute :confused:

Reply 6

lilac!!

okay thats so unfair on you!!!
well if he thinks you are gona go around chasing him he had another thing coming lol
dont worry about he was just some arse who came into your life and know hes out!!! :-) just be yourself, go on a date etc: if you wanna get back at him, tell you sis to tell him that you are so happy with this new guy etc: lol