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Unless you're a psychic, or he says "I'm cheating on you", you're not going to be able to find out anything significant through analysing what he says or does not say in an online conversation.
ditto above ^

Don't panic. He might just be tired.
I don't see how it would indicate he is cheating. Perhaps he was tired/drunk/not in the mood for talking.
Reply 4
he's on holiday...why the hell would he want to talk online. If you do go online on holiday its a five minute email check then leave.
don't be paranoid...its not attractive and it'll piss him off in the long run.
Reply 5
Chumbaniya
Unless you're a psychic, or he says "I'm cheating on you", you're not going to be able to find out anything significant through analysing what he says or does not say in an online conversation.


Exactly. I've had so many silly little arguments with my boyfriend on msn because when you just read text and don't hear any emotion you can think they're saying things in certain ways that are not the case. And if they don't talk because they're busy it may seem like they're ignoring you. If you want to talk to him just email or ask him to give you a call, but he's on holiday i doubt i'd spend much time online either.
Reply 6
yeah i suppose i shld b lucky that he came online at all to try and talk to me and he had try to phone me that day so i guess i shld b happy that he went to an internet cafe and got to talk to me at all
:smile:
Does he have any family that might have singed into his account by mistake?

I wouldn't worry too much about it though if he's away, he might have just been checking emails and didn't want to be online for long.
Reply 8
My boyfriend is from Canada and went home for 7weeks over Christmas after we'd only been together 2weeks :frown:. He called me often, but rarely came online. I got well excited when he did, only to find he wasn't chatting. I was all upset and mopey but then he told me his cousin had signed in as him accidentally! 7weeks is a killer, man...he missed my birthday (11th Dec), Christmas AND new year!
my bf is away for holidays now, he talks to me sometimes on MSN...OP, hehe I did feel like being treated badly coz he was too busy with his frdz...yesterday he was in a club and jumped into the owner's office who is his frd to talk to me on MSN...dnt know now...felt good coz he talked to me but felt sad coz he was in a club..there're things bound to happen...im so paranoid!!!
Reply 10
as the others have said, its impossible to guess. most probobly he's not cheating on you. Its hard, but you have to keep telling yourself to have some blind faith and trust in him, just as he has to have the same trusting you when hes not with you.
Reply 11
Haineko
as the others have said, its impossible to guess. most probobly he's not cheating on you. Its hard, but you have to keep telling yourself to have some blind faith and trust in him, just as he has to have the same trusting you when hes not with you.


yeah thats true i mean im going out on fri with a load of girls he doesnt no and he might b worried about that.
i do trust him its jsut hard sometimes esp wen hes going out getting drunk every night but ill b fine 2 weeks is nothing
thanx u lovely people xxx
Reply 12
ive had that problem with alot of my gap year friends but what happens is that when they login to hotmail, it automatically signs them in on web messenger. if your bf's says web messenger then thats a case of him not actually being online and just checking his emails. if you want to talk only you can start the conversation because none of their contacts are on the screen and they dont even know they are signed in let alone that you are as well.
Why wld he be wanting to chat on msn when he's on holiday? Don't worry. Can i also say if someone cheats when they're on holiday it's not half as bad as with someone at home (not saying it's right) but when you're on holiday you often feel like you're so far away from anything normal in life, and so if anything did happen it's hardly going to continue when he gets home and ruin your relationship is it? I dont think i'd be all that mad if my boyf cheated on me when he was on holiday, as long as he's faithful to me when at home and i'm the one he wants then....
Reply 14
hes given me no really reason in the 8months we have bin together that he wld ever want to cheat on me or that hes the type that wld so yeah.
i think he if did cheat on me then i dont no it wld depend on how sorry he was if i took him bk or not. you dont no till it happens do u. im sure everything will b ok and that i dont have anything to worry about xxx