this has really rocked my confidence as I now wonder if I'm not sexy or stimulating enough to make a guy fall in love. He must at the beginning have liked me as more than a friend otherwise why would you date a girl?
do you have any idea why he couldn't /decided not to fall for me? I want to start dating again soon and don't want this happening again.
That said, just be yourself, you'll find the right person eventually.
I'm 34. I think we're in different places in life so maybe it's for the best. I just hope the next guy is more honest earlier if his feelings don't develop rather than keeping me hanging.
My ex-boyfriend dumped me after 18 months saying that although he loved and cared about me he wasn't in love with me so couldn't consider marrying me. (I'm a mature student.) I could take that he fell out of love with me but it sounds like he was never in love with me in the first place.
Moving on will be the best for you right now. Hope you're OK.