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Reply 1
Anonymous
Would it put you off having sex with a girl if she looked really thin, weak and fragile? I don't mean if she has annorexia or anything I mean if she is naturally like that. Just wondered.

It wouldn't put me off especially if they was a lovely person in general :biggrin:
From a girl's point of view (:biggrin: ) it would.

She might break or something.
Thanks for the rep - looks like someone can take a joke.
Reply 4
Anonymous
Would it put you off having sex with a girl if she looked really thin, weak and fragile? I don't mean if she has annorexia or anything I mean if she is naturally like that. Just wondered.


Personally? Yes. I'm not sure if I can speak for the whole male race here but what's more important than the skinny/curvy/fat issue is healthy/unhealthy. Someone who looks healthy and fit, no matter what their body shape is, will always seem more attractive to me. I can go for a rather curvy girl just as I can go for an incredibly slim girl.

A slim girl who just looks like she keeps fit, maybe goes to the gym, eats enough will always seem more attractive than a girl who only seems slim because she doesn't seem to eat enough (again, I'm talking about how she appears, not whether she actually does eat enough or not, don't want to start off an anorexia debate).

Another rather unattractive feature on the opposite side of the spectrum is a big bum. It's not the fact that the girl is heavier that's unattractive, but a big bum can often be a sign that a girl isn't taking care of her body enough, has let herself go a fair bit.
Reply 5
depends on the girl'
Anonymous
Would it put you off having sex with a girl if she looked really thin, weak and fragile?

Much better than overweight and dumpy! :smile:
Reply 7
Sticky
Personally? Yes. I'm not sure if I can speak for the whole male race here but what's more important than the skinny/curvy/fat issue is healthy/unhealthy. Someone who looks healthy and fit, no matter what their body shape is, will always seem more attractive to me. I can go for a rather curvy girl just as I can go for an incredibly slim girl.

A slim girl who just looks like she keeps fit, maybe goes to the gym, eats enough will always seem more attractive than a girl who only seems slim because she doesn't seem to eat enough (again, I'm talking about how she appears, not whether she actually does eat enough or not, don't want to start off an anorexia debate).

Another rather unattractive feature on the opposite side of the spectrum is a big bum. It's not the fact that the girl is heavier that's unattractive, but a big bum can often be a sign that a girl isn't taking care of her body enough, has let herself go a fair bit.


Ok, well I look average and healthy when I look in the mirror at home, but when I get outside compared to other girls my wrists are just soo thin and unhealthy and I look about 13 years old (im 20 lol) I also have a really tiny hips and waist unlike most who have wide hips
Reply 8
I personally find really thin women very unnatractive, but if she was a nice person thenw ho knows.
Reply 9
What if she was really small and thin but in proportion?
Reply 10
Anonymous
Ok, well I look average and healthy when I look in the mirror at home, but when I get outside compared to other girls my wrists are just soo thin and unhealthy and I look about 13 years old (im 20 lol) I also have a really tiny hips and waist unlike most who have wide hips


It's all about being "toned". Of course you can't do much about your body shape but if you seem to have a toned tummy, toned legs etc. that's infinitely sexier. If you're uncomfrotable with the way you look, I'd recommend joining a gym. It could do wonders for you.

Then again, some guys actually like the whole weak, fragile, unhealthy look but they're not really the norm.

Maybe you could show us a photo? or you can PM if you like :wink:
Reply 11
my first gf was really thin like.
she didnt break..
but she was strongish
you should only be worried if your atlest double her weight :wink:
Anonymous
Ok, well I look average and healthy when I look in the mirror at home, but when I get outside compared to other girls my wrists are just soo thin and unhealthy and I look about 13 years old (im 20 lol) I also have a really tiny hips and waist unlike most who have wide hips

Aw. Don't fret - there is a very large proportion of blokes out there who love petite women.

I'm one of them. :wink:
Reply 13
Sticky
It's all about being "toned". Of course you can't do much about your body shape but if you seem to have a toned tummy, toned legs etc. that's infinitely sexier. If you're uncomfrotable with the way you look, I'd recommend joining a gym. It could do wonders for you.

Then again, some guys actually like the whole weak, fragile, unhealthy look but they're not really the norm.

Maybe you could show us a photo? or you can PM if you like :wink:


I think im toned not sure, but its just my build im tiny, if I show you a pic you will probably say im normal weight because im in proportion but if you saw me in real life im tiny lol, Ive no proper hips or anything:frown:

anyway here is one..:redface:
Reply 14
Might not work..
Fine. Normal. Nothing to worry about.
Sazarina88
Fine. Normal. Nothing to worry about.

:ditto:
Anonymous
Would it put you off having sex with a girl if she looked really thin, weak and fragile? I don't mean if she has annorexia or anything I mean if she is naturally like that. Just wondered.


Nah, anyone who says otherwise is probably a homosexual.
Reply 19


You don't look particularly skinny (I'd say skinny is when the ribcage is just too prominent). You're just slim. You also look relatively athletic.

If you don't already do so, I'd definitely recommend going to the gym (not that your body looks bad or anything!), you'd look even more toned and you'd probably end up being a lot more confident about the way your body looks.