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men looking at you

everywhere i go, theres men looking at my chest (im 16) no matter how old they are, is this normal and appropriate...? its making me uncomfortable..espesh when they keep on staring when they know that i know they are looking.

Reply 1

*Sunflower*

thats simply men for you, i'm afraid. it does happen and will happen a lot - legs, chest, bum.

Reply 2

Dr Doom

kick em in the nuts. it feels great, trust me

Reply 3

x_muso_x

3

Yeah, I get it all the time - it's a fact of life... a lot of men are perverts...

Reply 4

Zafda

8

yes this is very normal for sleazy men, especially if your chest is rather to their liking.

don't take it personally, mind you i'd feel horrid if i was in your position.

Reply 5

matt@internet

12

It's semi-normal and not at all appropriate, unless it's your boyfriend and in private

Reply 6

AT82

Its possibly partly your imagination. Don't worry about it too much, men just can't help glancing at attractive things, its why the female body is so lovely :biggrin:

Reply 7

Onearmedbandit

17

Hmm I think it depends on whether we're talking actual staring, purposely looking, or just quickly glancing.

The first would worry me, the latter is probably nothing to take notice of. Although that said, being a man I'd find it a bit worrying if anybody deliberately looked at my chest.

Reply 8

yo-sup-man

1

Necklace was created by men... Why? Gives us an excuse to look down :P

Reply 9

Dude

14

Well the female form is just enjoyable to look at, thats all.

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

OP

it is defo not my imagination! trust me. does the fact that they are looking and continusly staring mean they fancy me? or are they thinking 'mmmm' i have no idea what they are thinking when they are staring. its creeping me out

Reply 11

Gem

14

Try this...

But on a serious note, if it's bothering you, just tell them off. I do!

Reply 12

Dr Doom

it is defo not my imagination! trust me. does the fact that they are looking and continusly staring mean they fancy me? or are they thinking 'mmmm' i have no idea what they are thinking when they are staring. its creeping me out

refer to my post above. its the best advice here(so far)

Reply 13

AT82

Stairing is wrong, glancing is just what men do, we are programmed to do it by god.

That t-shirt is so funny :biggrin:

Reply 14

Anonymous #2

why are u worrying? Ur probably really hot, and be happy that you are! If they are staring just ignore them i guess. The female form is really attractive (unless your obese) so alot of girls are in the exact situation as you! Dont worry, be happy! :smile:

Reply 15

Scienceboi

7

all men are NOT perverts, all men DO however like tits, and its my god given right to look at them

Reply 16

Anonymous #1

OP

Anonymous

why are u worrying? Ur probably really hot, and be happy that you are! If they are staring just ignore them i guess. The female form is really attractive (unless your obese) so alot of girls are in the exact situation as you! Dont worry, be happy! :smile:

im not obese. so in a way the fact they are staring is a good thing? i should take it as a compliement?

seriously...ALL men. even at school...

Reply 17

Anonymous #3

Anonymous

why are u worrying? Ur probably really hot, and be happy that you are! If they are staring just ignore them i guess. The female form is really attractive (unless your obese) so alot of girls are in the exact situation as you! Dont worry, be happy! :smile:

Your defo right there, What do females think about the male form? Is it Really attractive to you girls?

Reply 18

Shakespeare1

11

yes the male form is really attractive to us, but i dont stare at a certain body part loads i.e the trouser snake. wouldnt that make the male uncomfortable but then females have more for a man to look at than for a female to look at.

Reply 19

Anonymous #2

Anonymous

im not obese. so in a way the fact they are staring is a good thing? i should take it as a compliement?

seriously...ALL men. even at school...

simple solution : dont make an effort. If you dont want people to notice you dont wear make up, wear some baggy clothes, tie your hair back tight (like a chavette), and grow some facial hair (jk). Seriously if this is causing a problem just dont make the effort with ur appearance. If i was in ur situation if be over the moon and take it as a huge compliment! :biggrin:

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