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18 y/o girl kisses 45 y/o man

A few days ago I kissed a 45 year old man. I knew him from before and we spent quite a lot of time together but with other friends too. We ended up kissing. I really like him, and he told me that he's fallen in love with me. Many of you will think it's disgusting but he makes me happy and we get along really well. I know he's my dad's age but I can't help my feelings. Do you think he's just lying about loving me? I didn't let him touch me or anything, just kissing so he probably knows he can't use me for sex.

Reply 1

ZigZag

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Anonymous

A few days ago I kissed a 45 year old man. I knew him from before and we spent quite a lot of time together but with other friends too. We ended up kissing. I really like him, and he told me that he's fallen in love with me. Many of you will think it's disgusting but he makes me happy and we get along really well. I know he's my dad's age but I can't help my feelings. Do you think he's just lying about loving me? I didn't let him touch me or anything, just kissing so he probably knows he can't use me for sex.

I don't see how he could possibly love you after one kiss.

Reply 2

Creepy

14

Sounds a bit Mentally unstable to be saying " I love you " After such a short period of time.

Reply 3

squigaletta

i have to ask, why is a 45 y/o hanging out with a load of 18 y/os or are you hanging out with a load of 45 y/o...?

Reply 4

A Y A Z

11

Keep an eye on those 'hands'.

Reply 5

Sazarina88

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I agree with what ZigZag said.

Also, you are both at completely different points in your life. He's probably wanting to settle down whilst you are practically just starting your life.

Are you sure things could work with the age difference? What would both families and friends think?

I can guess it would be very hard but if you think it's worth the hassle go for it.

Sarah xx

Reply 6

shady lane

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Anonymous

A few days ago I kissed a 45 year old man. I knew him from before and we spent quite a lot of time together but with other friends too. We ended up kissing. I really like him, and he told me that he's fallen in love with me. Many of you will think it's disgusting but he makes me happy and we get along really well. I know he's my dad's age but I can't help my feelings. Do you think he's just lying about loving me? I didn't let him touch me or anything, just kissing so he probably knows he can't use me for sex.

Hmm...desperate much?

Too big of an age difference, sorry. I know all sorts of teenage girls will come on and say "it's love, how dare you judge others" etc. But even at my young age of 22 I can tell you, a 45 year old that wants an 18 year old is either slightly perverted or cant' get any adult women. Stop it right now because you are too young, enjoy life and don't this 45 year old man try to keep you for himself and stop you from living your own teenage life.

Besides, he will try to get sex from you eventually, unless he's religious or something.

Reply 7

black_mamba

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Anonymous

Do you think he's just lying about loving me?

How are we supposed to know? :wtf?: You can make judgements like that based on the age difference alone.

Reply 8

Andronicus Comnenus

lucky bastard :frown:

Reply 9

Geerththanan

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squigaletta

i have to ask, why is a 45 y/o hanging out with a load of 18 y/os or are you hanging out with a load of 45 y/o...?

Reply 10

Anonymous #2

Are you sure that it is love and it isn't just horney for a young teenager girl?

Reply 11

supernova2

11

maybe you see him as a father figure type of thing but he probably sees you as a good lay....

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

OP

Well I think he has a "thing" for younger girls because he has a girlfriend who's 26 years old.. but he said he's not serious with her. We hang around in mixed groups, he's sons in it too so its ok. It doesn't mean he loves me just after one kiss, but I could feel that he liked me right from the beginning when we first met, from the way he looked at me and how he was always close to me etc.

Reply 13

Girlie

1

I think it's too large an age gap. He's not necessarily lying about 'loving you', he may be confused. After such a short time I don't see how he could love you. You have to question his motives.

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

OP

supernova2

maybe you see him as a father figure type of thing but he probably sees you as a good lay....

My parents divorced when I was 6, and I haven't had a good relationship with my father at all after that. I haven't seen him in many years either, so maybe what you're saying is right. At first I did see him as father figure and felt him looking out for me etc. but then it just turned out different. :confused:

Reply 15

black_mamba

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Anonymous

Well I think he has a "thing" for younger girls because he has a girlfriend who's 26 years old.. but he said he's not serious with her.

A warning just went off in my head. :rolleyes:

Reply 16

billbonesknowswhatimean

also, if you add up the two numbers of your ages, they both equal 9...

..fate?

Reply 17

billbonesknowswhatimean

lol, also..when you're his age he'd probably be losin it a bit and just assume ur his daughter

Reply 18

Anonymous #2

black_mamba

A warning just went off in my head. :rolleyes:

Agreed, that just shows that he is after you for your body and doesn't want anything serious.

Reply 19

billbonesknowswhatimean

triple post, but i just HAVE to say...when he was ur age you weren't even born..

now switch that around, and think...all those new-born babies in the delivery room right now..COULD physically give birth to your next love

18 y/o girl kisses 45 y/o man

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